2006-12-21 03:44:54 · 14 answers · asked by a guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, its best to keep that separate!
2006-12-21 03:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I thought I was the only one out there who struggled with this. A few days back I asked a similar question and was slammed pretty good. I have been married for 5 years and I can't say it has been easy. I started a new job in March and have started to fall for a guy that I work with. He is married and we both know that the feelings we have are wrong but to be honest we have acted on them. The hard part is that you have to see this guy everyday or quit your job which is not a great answer for those who think it is. This guy has recently took a new job for more pay still real close to where I work. I am sad to see him go but at the same time I am hoping that our little problem starts to diminish. All I can say is that if you haven't done anything don't start because it will only get harder for you and him as well if he is in a relationship. Good luck and I hope this helps and know you are definitely not alone in this one.
2006-12-21 12:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by Love2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am married and very unhappy, yes I am tempted not only at work but all kinds of places. When I see a nice looking man I start to fantisize because of my current situation with my un happy marriage. I am looking for the vioid I'm missing in my marriage...
2006-12-21 13:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by kcarter0429 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married 13 years and the only other one I desired is an ex.
2006-12-21 12:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desire and temptation is everywhere for women and men alike. It is not about whether they exsist, it is about whether we give in to them that matters. I'm happily married and have a really kinky sex life that is full of love and devotion. When I see a really hot man yeah, my nipples may get hard right along with my clit but then I think about all the guys that I felt like that over and how many of them turned out to be loveless, I am quite content to go home with my hard nipples and clit and have my husband put in a workout on me. I know I am loved, with the temptation/desire I just do not know that. I know my husband shags me rotten and I love every minute of it but with the temptation/desire I just do not know how it will be. I would rather be certain than guessing.
2006-12-21 11:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. I do not desire anyone besides my hubby. I look but I do not touch. When in a relationship you have to trust until you cannot trust. Do you have a reason to not trust?
2006-12-21 12:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Biker Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temptation is out there no matter what. It is up to you ultimately to make the decision if this is going to be something you are going to regret as in; loosing your job and your marriage etc.
Stop and think before you act .
Be smart, good luck
2006-12-21 11:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married and no desires
2006-12-21 11:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALl those people who said no are lieing....they are married...and human too, everyone is tempted at some point.
2006-12-21 13:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when i was in a very bad marriage, then yes, because i now know that i was just looking for that attention that i wasn't getting from my (ex) husband. now that I'm happy with my life and with a wonderful man--then no, not at all.
2006-12-21 12:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the sex part of the marriage, you can fantasize all you want but to actully do it IS WRONG!
2006-12-21 11:52:49 · answer #11 · answered by lil momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋