2006-12-21 03:43:26 · 15 answers · asked by siddharth d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take your time. What's the rush? Are you all in a race to see who can get the next lover the fastest? Enjoy your time with you, getting to know you better. I've always wondered how a person can be good company to someone else, if they're not good company to themselves. Use this time as "ME TIME", and when you're ready to start dating again... get back out there. Until then, stop worrying about what SHE is doing, and focus more on YOU!!! (she's obviously not focused on you)
2006-12-21 03:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Queryous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is for advice, The other person in your newly terminated relationship is trying to get over the relationship by finding a new one right away, you on the other hand choose that you are not ready and are actually willing to wait, the longer you wait the better you are simply because you learn that you do not need another person to complete you. Trust me you wanting to wait is a great decision.
2006-12-21 11:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by ceresia_blade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not ready then don't wait 4 the right one to come along...come on dude enjoy ur single status a bit like hang out with ur frnds go bird(girl) watching flrit a bit take ur sweet time to get over d relationship in short STOP thinkin that ur ready 4 a gf or not start pampering urself ,give ur self a chance to live a care free live
2006-12-21 12:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by sweet16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when its time to move on....it may help if you stop paying attention to what the status of her availability is...If you fixate on your loss you only stall your ability to move forward & grow from the relationship you had shared with her...down the road is a life lesson waiting for you to recieve it ....you are not stilll together with "HER" because , it is not in your best interests...trust the universe---- every emotional challenge is an opportunity to learn and grow...
2006-12-21 12:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your going through is normal. take as long as you need to get over it so that when the next lucky lady comes around things may work out much better for you.
2006-12-21 11:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOO HOO HOO!!! Take it to singles and dating!! This is marriage and divorce not individual counseling.
2006-12-21 11:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre not ready wait a week or so
2006-12-21 11:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I agree with "ceresia_blade"
2006-12-21 11:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u wanted to hear this
listen then she didn't love u so much as u loved her simple hain naa ...
2006-12-21 11:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of how the other guy is doing and use hand.
2006-12-21 11:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by beekay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋