my wife is sleeping with our neighbor, and i know about it, but she doesnt know that i know. But i am sleeping with a nurse i work with, so should i just leave things as they are? its going well for us, and i dont mind her sleeping around?
2006-12-21 03:32:37 · 19 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-12-21 03:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by knightgown_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, it does matter cause you wouldn't be asking the question if it didn't. Look within yourself and I am sure you know what the both of you are doing is wrong. Why are you married anyway? Stop the madness before someone gets feelings involved and hurt. You may think everything is okay but I can assure you that if anything can go wrong it will especially when you are doing something that you clearly shouldn't be doing. I am sure your male ego is bruised at the thought she is getting screwed by the next door neighbor no less. I would suggest putting things out in the open, don't argue, or compare sex cards, but just let it out of the bag and get divorced. Stop with the whoring around cause someone gonna get killed.
2006-12-21 11:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hell, if you don't mind and you've got someone on the side I don't see what's the big deal. You both are satisfied. Seriously though maybe you should confront her and let her know that you know, and see what she says, then inform her of your own infidelity and see what she says. One of three things will happen 1. you both will agree that it's over and have an amicable split 2. you both will agree that the arrangement is cool and it works and for whatever reasons (financial probably) it's in both of your best interest to stick it out or 3. after coming clean you will both realize what initially attracted you to the other and make passionate love and ditch the pieces on the side and make up. However it turns out, I think you both have a right to know, but at the same time if it ain't broke don't fix it, the choice is yours. All the best.
2006-12-21 11:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....um....just let things be. You cheating, she's cheating, and everyone is satisfied with that arrangement. I guess you should just let it be.
However, If you two would get some counseling and put you efforts into each other instead of other people your marriage could be happier. Right now you two are completely disillusioned with each other and marriage, and it won't end well.
2006-12-21 11:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can,t be serious I know that there are all types of people on here but I can,t be live that these are adults asking these questions it has to be a joke grow up and if you think everything is OK with your life then it,s alright with me you got to be kidding me
2006-12-21 14:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your wife should of never got married if you know that you wanted to sleep with other people. I hope you don't have any kids. Its a disgrace to you and your family.
2006-12-21 11:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Gucci S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...maybe you should tell her you know she's sleeping with someone else, and tell her you don't mind. then after you see what her reaction is, maybe you could tell her you're doing the same thing. if your gonna cheat, you might as well as be honest about it.
2006-12-21 11:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you two should have never been married in the first place.. i really hope that you two do not have children in that messed up house hold that yall live in.. and if you do then i feel really bad for the kids.. yall should just end the relationship now.. because there really is not a 'relationship' there to begin with.. vows mean something and yall just took yours and threw them out the window with your family and with your self respect..
2006-12-21 11:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you guys have kids? Well what would happen if they found out? To each his own, but think about the other people in your family.
2006-12-21 11:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind and your cheating on her than why are you asking the question? Obviously you have made up your mind on this situation!
2006-12-21 11:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋