I like a guy and right now he isnt living where I live (me: sweden - him:america). He came here last summer and we played with each other and his little brother. It was really fun and he is nice to me, a little stubborn and yeah, guy's personalities. I want to know how he thinks about me but how? Tell him that I like him? NO WAY! If he likes me, its gonna be ok, he doesnt its gonna be a disaster and hes not gonna talk to me anymore. Some one help me! What should I do?
2006-12-21 03:22:44 · 4 answers · asked by Lina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No fear. Talk to him and tell him that you had a really great experience last summer and you miss the time you spent together. Don't fear rejection, only the coldest person would cut another person off because they showed romantic interest. Trust me, you don't need friends like that! I think it's so funny that men and women are so scared to tell each other how they feel! If letting him know is not worth the embarrassment then you need to rethink why you like him so much. Most importantly, if you are interested in exploring a relationshiip with this person the only way you will find out is by asking. This may sound cliche but be yourself around this person and everything should work out.
Hope that helps!
2006-12-21 03:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by dumpbullets 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you guys keep in touch regularly? Is he coming back to Sweden or you to the USA at any time? As long as you keep in touch, there is always a possibility of a romance, even if it is way in the future. If both of you are teens and have limited ability to travel or move, for now keep it as friends and keep your options open. Who knows what may happen?
2006-12-21 11:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should check weather he has a girlfriend or not. You should tell him that you have a boyfriend and that you want to break up with this guy. If he encouraged you than he might be attracted to you but on the other hand if he did not encouraged you than he thinks of you as a friend.
2006-12-21 11:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by dandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-12-21 11:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by kate j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋