Im bisexual.
Me and my girlfriend were at the movies and having a good time when her little brother walked by us when we were leaaving and she told him i was her friend.
We've been dating for almost a year now.
Her whole family nows were together.
i dont understand!
2006-12-21 03:19:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're friends right? Maybe she just said it as a casual introduction. Maybe she's trying to protect her brother. Maybe her brother can be annoying when it comes to who his sister is dating. There are so many possible reasons... But the question really is, is she doing anything to make you doubt that she loves you? When there's just the two of you together, is it wonderful? or is there too much water on it?
Nothing's worng with you by the way, you just want to be introduced to the world as someone special to another person. I know how it feels... seven years and my girl always introduces me as friend, roommate, bestfriend, etc. Never as a lover. But why did I stay? Because I know she loves me, and it doesn't matter if the rest of the world does not know that....
But I guess they read between the lines anyway. ;)
2006-12-21 03:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the people on here already. I can totally relate with your g/f on this one. Even if she is 'out', there are people who may not know nor does she want them to know for whatever reason - especially if it is a younger brother who wouldn't be able to appreciate and fully understand what your relationship is. I am sure that when her brother is ready to hear and understand and accept, your g/f would be willing to tell him. Just be patient and try not to let it bother you. But, you should be able to talk to her about it and let her know how you feel and find out from her why she didn't mention it, maybe that would help how you are feeling about it.
2006-12-21 13:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Amy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he is her little brother and although the whole family may know about the two of you, perhaps he is either too young to understand or she is just trying to protect him....don't read too much into it....be happy with her and in time she will know, when to come out to her brother, that is her decision, don't hold it against her. Merry Christmas.
2006-12-21 11:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how little is her brother? maybe she said that because he might be too young to understand or accept fully about being bisexual?
her whole family knows meaning the full truth or just that you 2 hang out together a lot and it could be a fad?
these are the only reasons that i can think of
good luck
2006-12-21 11:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by acnemycin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you NOT her friend?
You know, I have a wife, but she's also my friend.
Perhaps she doesn't want any flack from her brother about who she dates. Little brothers can be such a huge pain that way.
2006-12-21 11:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the whole family know except the the little bother it must be a reason. she know what to tell him and what not. is not like you let every body know your business you tell them what you feel them to know.
2006-12-21 15:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being straight is tough....YOU know this...the best you can do is talk to your GF about all this....she might still feel scared at time just talk to her....Good luck and god bless.
2006-12-21 11:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt want her lil brother to learn about that stuff yet
2006-12-21 11:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if her entire families knows, then he should know too, right?
2006-12-21 11:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two need to have a serious talk.
2006-12-22 01:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋