2006-12-21 03:14:37 · 30 answers · asked by lotrfan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the BIBLE SAY ITS A SIN TO HAVE SEX OUT SIDE MARRIAGE SO I GUESS ITS A NONO
2006-12-21 03:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A lot of people keep saying stuff like test driving a car before you buy it and what not. What if that car gets test driven hella times. The cliches' while funny have nothing to do with sex and marriage. Here's a cliche' for you...would you rather buy a car that has 0 miles or 50,000 miles......
Kids grow up. Sex will be good with anyone you truly love. You don't have to test drive anything to know you love it. Plus a marriage based on sex will not last. Sex enhances a relationship it doesn't make it. A lot you would be better off not having sex with "every" boyfriend you get. That way you would quickly weed out the ones that just want to "test drive" you.
2006-12-21 11:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You would not buy a car without test driving it would you?? You are going to be w/ this person all your life and what happens if the sex does not work for either of you??? Sex is a big part of a relationship. I use to not be a "SEX" person but with my loving boyfriend now I can not get enough. I think it makes us stronger because we have such a great connection. The fire of a relationship with hold you together!!!
2006-12-21 11:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by lizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex will always be good in a loving, trusting and respect centered relationship. Wait until you get married to have sex. Techniques can always be learned after marriage to enhance the experience...so there is really no need to practice it before the real deal (marriage). Just think, you have a lifetime to practice and make perfect your sexual relationship with your life partner.
2006-12-21 13:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Worried 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, its okay for two adults that understand what they are doing. It should be done with protective measures and not clouded by drugs or alcohol. It should not be linked with morals that are out dated. In addition to that, one shouldn't force or push the other if both are not ready for that level of the relationship. Good luck
2006-12-21 14:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the reason for the sex. Is it simply for one's own satisfaction or is it to share the moment? To have sex with someone you would never consider marrying or having a further relationship with is to cheapen you own values both in your own eyes and the eyes of the person you are having sex with.
2006-12-21 11:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dont you want to save your virginity for the one you want to spend the r est of your life with. just because the media says its ok, doesnt mean it isnt. sex creates a connection and if you do it outside a marriage it makes breakups extremely hard and stressful. When you give up your virginity, you are giving up a part of yourself.
2006-12-21 11:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by sj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it MANDATORY today? Every couple should live like married before getting married on paper, that way you don't have to spend so much to get married and realize you just aren't compatible then have to pay so much to divorce them and fight over b/s like who gets the tv or the dog.
2006-12-21 11:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not ok because you will get very special experience when you have sex for the first time when you get married....try to avoid sex before marriage because your husband will not satisfied if he knows you had sex with other men before him...
2006-12-21 11:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by dump_man 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! I do not know why marriage is linked to sexuality. Its the moral police I guess!
2006-12-21 11:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you need to find out before it is a legal commitment whether she likes sex as much as you do. technique can be learned if she is willing. is she as perverted as you? does she like watching porrn while having sex like you do.
you could be in for a lifetime of dissapointment.
2006-12-21 11:17:49 · answer #11 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋