Men, can you tell me will you marry a woman who you don't really love? You marry her because both of you are together for many years. She had done alot for you so you can't leave her because of responsibility? She asked you to marry her so you did just to please her. Is it possible?
2006-12-21 02:46:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men, can you tell me will you marry a woman who you don't really love? You marry her because both of you are together for many years. She had done alot for you so you can't leave her because of responsibility? She asked you to marry her so you did just to please her. Is it possible?
It is not me! It is my guy friend. I told him not to marry for the wrong reasons coz I'm a victim of wrong marriage too. But he said he won't leave him unless she leave him because he had to keep his promises.
2006-12-21 03:12:47 · update #1
It is not me! It is my guy friend. I told him not to marry for the wrong reasons coz I'm a victim of wrong marriage too. But he said he won't leave him unless she leave him because he had to keep his promises.
2006-12-21 03:13:57 · update #2
A lot of people marry for the wrong reasons, so yes anything is possible. Would or should you marry for those reasons? No. Just because you have been with someone for many years does not justify marriage, but on the other hand why be with someone for many years if you didn't love them? Honestly, if you feel this person is with you just because of time, and you did things for them, YOU shouldn't be marrying them. You both have to say I do. If you feel this person doesn't truly love you, save yourself some time and money and don't get married.
2006-12-21 03:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the situation. Not everything is black and white with a topic like this. Some couples have the arrangement that the father will work, and the mother stays home and takes care of the house and kids. Therefore, the money is the father's responsibility. But some people who have kids both work, and can't afford not to. I don't think a woman working while pregnant is a bad thing, as long as there are no complications and the job is safe for her and the baby. It is healthier to get the exercise rather than sit around all day if the mom has no other responsibilities. In some cases, the woman who gets pregnant is unfortunately more responsible and more financially stable and independent than the father (yup, that's me). In a case like that, the woman has no choice but to provide for herself and her child, as long as she is able to do so. You can't always rely on someone else to do their part. You should be able to, but it doesn't always happen that way. Besides, even in married couples where both people work before baby is born, the woman enjoys continuing to work simply cuz it fills her time if she has nothing else to do. The bonus is that she can save up the extra money for if she decides to stay home after the baby is born. All in all, everything depends on each couple's personal situation. There's no one right answer for everyone.
2016-03-29 02:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good idea but a great idea is to appreciate her and set out to discover her an ideal mate. Don't be shoving her for sale but discuss how to find what she needs. Look together. When men or women go thru mid life crisis, it's better to have a mate to go looking. Interview people for her. She may not be responsive at first but unequal feelings lead to resentment. Do not date until she is satisfied. Call yourself her mentor. Play the mentor and be sincere and geniune in this challenge but no, don't marry without love. It makes it too hard when problems arise and there will always be problems to work thru in any relationship.
2006-12-21 02:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I can see how it's possible, it's not something I would have done. If a woman had done alot for me, well, that was her choice; she didn't have to. Maybe my life would have been more difficult, but I wouldn't accept help from anyone without the person understanding what I would and would not be able to pay back. If she asked me to marry her and I didn't love her, I would, as kindly as possible, tell her, "No thank you."
2006-12-21 02:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can marry a person who you do not love.If you felt that you were responsible for her and that you had been with her many years.She asked you to marry her and you married her.It sounds like you married her out of guilt.It's hard to to live a lie,now be responsible and tell her the truth.If there's no love,there's no happiness.Good Luck
2006-12-21 03:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible, however I don't think any of the two parties will be totally happy with the mariage.The man because he decided to marry out of pity, and the woman because she's forcing him to marry her.
2006-12-21 02:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me you never Merrie someone because of responsibility you Marie them for love and respect .......i feel that you should leave if you don't love her or really want to be with her being with someone because of responsibility never works at least i have never heard of any and in the long run she will feel worse for making you Merrie her........i hope everything works out for so good luck and i hope nothing but the best for the two of you.........
2006-12-21 03:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am woman and I will tell you don't do that.Everybody in life deserve true love,both of you.
2006-12-21 07:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by mirka_1412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can happen. I've witness that situation with one of my family member. It`z amazing how they can do it but they can
2006-12-21 02:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Justin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its possible,ive just divorced that kind of man,cause i know he marry me just cause ive got pregnant not cause he loved me
2006-12-21 02:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋