i can't because he won't break up with me HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-12-21 02:42:35 · 10 answers · asked by zac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, I have firsthand experience with this situation, and it is definately uncomfortable and very inconvenient. People like this are not really good for you if they are that clingy and do not respect your individuality, decisions and choices to do something. You have got to cut off all communication to this guy, like immediately. If he is not willing to talk to you and be a respective adult, then you just totally need to cut him off, period. This is a difficult situation and no doubt, he will still act as though you are still his boyfriend and that you both are still together, but you need to take responsibility and make him realize that it is over. Change your phone number if you have to, totally ignore him, don't answer his calls, do not do anything that pertains to him. When someone is not willing to accept facts such as your decision to lead a straight, hetero life, then that is his problem. If you do not love him anymore then he has no choice to accept that fact that it is your life and you must live it however you see fit. When you totally cut him off all together, you are doing the right thing. Someone must respect your decisions and choices when it comes to relationships and leading your life in the right direction. I did this once too and it was rough at first doing it, but when I did it, it worked and I am now leading a striaight life. I totally blocked out all of that part of my life that I used to have and developed a new one. You can do this - just let him go and make him realize that you do not want to be with him anymore and that you are changing your life and that that is something that you have to do for you, and not him or anyone else. I wish you luck!
2006-12-21 02:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by AllStar 85 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, not wanting to be gay won't make you straight. Most gay people go through a period in their lives where they try to be straight. It doesn't work. Best to come to terms with being gay and decide to be happy with the characteristics God gave you. Breaking up with your boyfriend is a seperate issue. If you love him, don't break up with him. If you don't love him, tell him so and don't take his calls. Breaking up with him won't make you straight.
2006-12-21 03:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Gary S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
properly, sweetie, you % new acquaintances. that's not suitable once you're out or no longer (it may be sturdy in case you have been out, even though it is your existence and company, lol), you're caught interior the midst of a unusual and wonderful ideas-recreation those 2 are twiddling with one yet another. It sounds to me like they the two % you and each is afraid to enable the different have you ever. So, my suggestion is to drop them the two off of your social calendar and make some new acquaintances. i'm hoping which you would be able to finally come to words with your homosexuality, because of the fact there is not any longer something "incorrect" with being gay. that's in basic terms part of who you're, no longer the totality of who you're, get it? next time one in each of them calls or texts you approximately getting mutually to cling, make up an excuse. try this some circumstances and that they gets the image. Andy and Freddy are in a dating and there is not any longer something you're able to do to make this a satisfied consequence. So, flow on with your existence in school and initiate paying interest and examining. college costs lots of money and that i don't be attentive to once you're procuring it your self or in the adventure that your mothers and fathers are, yet you deserve a sturdy practise, so why no longer get it mutually as you're there? you may have relaxing, yet in addition undergo in ideas which you're nonetheless youthful and you have lots of possibilities to locate somebody to "play" with which will shop your secret secure until you're waiting to return out. it is going to stay awkward with those 2. forget approximately approximately them and get on with it. My superb suggestion, locate people on your instructions to learn with, get to be attentive to and make acquaintances with. this is a definite time on your existence, so make the main of it. in spite of the fact which you come to a decision approximately "fooling around", determine which you have a sturdy inventory of condoms. HIV is rampant on college campuses, so which you would be able to desire to be careful available. i'm hoping this has helped some, Bret
2016-12-11 13:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by vasim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So.....Let me get this right,...
You are a dude that has "A BOYFRIEND" and you think you are straight?
You can choose to not sleep with men, But you will always have that attraction.
You can live a "straight life" maybe all your life., But I think you will probably not be happy.
2006-12-21 04:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Zac, truly if you wanted to leave this relationship, there is nothing to hold you back. Just go! Secondly, if you wanted to be straight you wouldn't be saying things like "my boyfriend.." Give it a rest.
2006-12-21 03:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to break up with him just do it. He can't stop you. Don't answer when he calls.
2006-12-21 02:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious?
Do you honestly believe leaving or breaking up with your bf means you will wake up heterosexual?
Next you will be telling us you believe in fairies.
Sighs and shakes head in disbelief..............why look there's Tinkerbell.
2006-12-21 03:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by Paulo.GZ. 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He can not force you to stay in a relationship that you do not want to be in. He may not be happy, but if you want out...its over. If you refuse to spend time with him, or talk to him....its done.
2006-12-21 02:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-21 02:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
It must be your Booty.
2006-12-21 02:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋