I had a baby with the worst greatest loser who in turn refuses to pick up his daughter on the wknds doesn't pay child support! my parents left the state I'm all alone. My bro and sis are so different than me we don't even speak anymore. my ex's family are the worlds worst people I have ever met in my life! I've been kicked out of every apt and lost so many jobs B/C I'm alone w/my daughter so times get hard for me when I can't find someone to pick up or take care of my daughter when school is out and my boss would get upset and let me go, having to start all over again some place else. And all of my friends are in relationships and getting married meanwhile I'm alone at home cause I have no one to take care of my daughter so I can have a drink and I can't I don't mind being at home with her but sometimes I need to go out and unload..meanwhile I just found out my ex is getting married the man who treats his kids like garbage and he deserves happiness how is that? unfair!! (crying)
2006-12-21 02:31:54 · 11 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think its coming, its been 13 years.
2006-12-21 02:36:20 · update #1
I'm never having a another child!
2006-12-21 02:54:14 · update #2
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You made these bad decisions, so you have to deal with them. There are single parents all over the world that are going through exactly what you are going through now. Stop worrying about when and where you can go to have a drink and start working on places that will take of your kid while you WORK!!!! Life is not fair, but one thing is for certain, the world doesn't revolve around you and your problems. Figure out what works for you and be a mother to you child!! I have read your previous questions, you said you split with the baby's dad b/c of a cocaine problem--- but want him back. A day later, you boast that you like this other guy----- Girl, please stop worrying about men so much and invest time in your child. It's obvious that you don't make good decisions. Get your head out of your a** and be a mother, please!!!!!!!!
2006-12-21 02:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a lesbian man hater! but find a cute lesbian of coarse!
no, seriously you need to get with some type of single parents group. go to the meetings, meet men with the same problems or even use online dating. IM married and need to unload. there are lots of stresses on both sides. look at the bright side of being single. make new friends who can babysit. go to meetings with other moms, there are plenty out there. you will be fine! get an online degree.
2006-12-21 10:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of good answers on here... Consider them all.
I found True Love on Yahoo Personals. Try that! Just make sure you're looking for the perefect match and not "settling for someone to marry".
2006-12-21 10:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by ngfl44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to work on your self esteem. maybe see a therapist.just to help you move past it. i know you went through a rough patch, you need to let go of your anger and bitterness towards this loser ex of yours, hes not even worth it. let his new wife suffer with him. do things for yourself, build up your own self esteem, get happy, love yourself. and dont go looking for a someone. the right man will come and find you when you least expect it. you'll see once you are happy in your own self things will start falling in place for you. and youve still got a daughter who needs you and loves you. dont worry, you will get married.
2006-12-21 10:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to focus on providing security for you and your child . Go after the child's father for support and make him be responsible .Even if you have to have him thrown in jail. He is 50% responsible for that child .DO not focus any time and energy on men until you can stand on your own two feet. Men will be there in the future !
2006-12-21 10:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you have a kid, you have to marry. Before you marry, you have to find a good person. You have to stay with the person untill you can see if they are good or bad. Then you can get married. Then you have to agree if you want a kid. Who will wake up in the middle of the night to tend to the baby? Hope this helps.
2006-12-21 10:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by grapefruitgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-21 10:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness will come your way eventually. Be patient!
2006-12-21 10:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by CrazyChic86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someday when you find the right one. Be patient.
2006-12-21 10:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am understand how you feel. i am single and also lonely. here my email address if you want to get to know a great guy. efrain78223@yahoo.com
2006-12-21 10:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋