make you angry for no reasons at all,and it is always they intentionally making you feel hurt and they mean it even you didnt make any mistake to them?How you deal with it?
2006-12-21 02:09:58 · 15 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get away from them,,,,,, no matter who it is,,,,, if they dont care for you,,,,, then you have no business near them,,,,,, first, before that,, have you told them how they make you feel???? discuss it, if no resolution, keep your distance
2006-12-21 02:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't let it make me angry. I work with someone like that. He constantly creates drama within the department, fighting with people & making them cry. I'm the only person at work he hasn't had drama with, because I refuse to allow it.
He tried once & said, "I think you......" (I don't remember what it was exactly, but it was meant to start a fight). I replied, "What makes you think I give a rat's *** what you think?" A couple coworker's started laughing, and he never tried it with me again. In fact, we get along quite well. He knows not to try it with me.
Noone can make you feel bad without you letting them. They're not worth your time or wasting any worry on them. Don't care about them enough to let what they say hurt you! good luck
2006-12-21 10:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by I saw whatudid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get a sick kick out of reaction, it makes them feel powerful as they have successfully manipulated your emotions.
I see the a lot as I work with the public on a daily basis and encounter a variety of personality type. The key is recognizing when others are trying to get a rise out of you. When that is the case, remaining calm, cool and maintain a positive demeanor. They will usually give up, or get upset themselves when they realize their efforts are not successful.
2006-12-21 10:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience those people who set out to make people angry, are their selves the angry ones. I can't truthfully tell you how to deal with them. You have to be able to control your own anger and not give in to their "jabs". Just remember you don't deserve it. They need the help.
2006-12-21 10:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurting people hurt people, intentionally. sit them down and talk to them about your hurt, and if it doesn't get any better, maybe it is best to distance yourself from them, and move on where u won't be mistreated.
2006-12-21 10:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called 'pushing your buttons'
What you need to do is just laugh it off, and don't let them think they are hurting you.
If you don't allow yourself to have any buttons that people can push, then they can no longer push your buttons.
2006-12-21 10:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter , who is twenty four yrs. old is doing that to me right now. she is mad that i giot a puppy and wants to accuse me of things i havent done to her. i just dont know why she is doing it. i just ignore it. if she wants to be mad at me , she will be mad at me until she needs me. so there is nothing i can do , but just wait and see what happens. it isnt my problem, it is hers and i wont own it. i hope this helps, merry christmas.
2006-12-21 10:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by chrystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them make you angry.
2006-12-21 10:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're jealous of you! Just ignore them... or just keep doing what you're doing and pretend that they don't bother you!
2006-12-21 11:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poke them in the eye. most the time they think they're bein cute. tell them to f**k off
2006-12-21 10:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋