i think that my best friend is sexually attracted to me how do i tell her gently that im not GAY without hurting her feelings?
2006-12-21 01:53:50 · 11 answers · asked by shortysherry46 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
u can just write her letter that says that u aren't gay then after she reads it tell r that u still want to be friends but just friends and tell her that there are other girls in the world that she can date and that u want to be straight and only straight not gay at all. then that won't hurt her feelings and u can still be friends and plus she can also find someone else that she can date and then the both of u will be happy in the end. So i hope that this answered your question. The other way is by calling her and first talk about something else then u slip it in the conversation then u tell y u don't wan't to be gay. If these didn't work u can e-mail me.
2006-12-21 02:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by zac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start fantasizing about what it would be like with the same sex.
Just be discreet about it. Subtle hints that you like dudes. Like taking a guy friend along on your outings and talking about how fine so and so (a guy) is.
2006-12-21 10:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Nicky Rae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to be 100% shes keen on you,,,,your title was abit misleading,, let her make a move and then say hey sorry mate,,im not into that sorry,, and say its fine that she is its etc and that your flattered,,,and just say it just doesnt turn you on,,,but you have to be certain she is 100% attracted to you,,or just say are you making sex eyes at me,,and go for gold,,you never know you might like it anyway good luck
2006-12-21 10:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by danz_vb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't have issues with her sexuality, ask her if she is gay.
Then tell her that you are cool with that, that you value her friendship, but not interested in anything more intimate.
2006-12-21 12:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know if you're attracted to the same sex and can't stop thinking about it. For your riend, tell her that you are flatttered but you are interested in men.
2006-12-21 10:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you start by saying "I'm not gay".
Then you might want to ask her if "your" and "you're" mean the same thing or not....see if she's smarter.
2006-12-21 10:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maintain Distance from her.Just stop her when she tries to do any Bad thing-------
2006-12-21 11:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anil 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the title of this question is misleading.
2006-12-21 09:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by qualityisperfect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question, then you are not.
2006-12-21 11:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER U AERENT GAY!
2006-12-21 10:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by jldevin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋