2006-12-21 01:45:23 · 5 answers · asked by polaris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No sometimes words are not enough. Its how you show someone I love you that makes it enough, words are sometimes just that.. words... Good Luck to you!!
2006-12-21 01:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All marriages go through good and bad times. If people stick through the rough times they are likely to emerge into a stronger relationship in future. So i would say your reaction to a rough weather in your marriage will make it better. Wait for a difficult time which will eventually come and then live through it manfully/womanfully.
A marriage can be better if:
1) Both husband and wife have incomes. Extra money helps.
2) Your parents serve as role models. If they lived a happy married life then the chances are that you will also have a happy married life.
3) Avoid pre-marital cohabitation. Couples who cohabitate prior to marriage report more problems and are more likely to think about divorce. That's opposite to what you'd expect.
4) Equality of husband and wife leads to happier married life. Do not dominate. Reach decisions together.
5) Avoid risky personality traits like "flies off the handle," "won't talk about it," "has irritating habits" and problem behaviors (trouble with the law, infidelity, drinking or drugs, child abuse.
6) Communication is the key. Be a good listener.
7) Appreciate the benefits of a compromise.
8) Pay attention to children's need first. They need secure married parents. Don't be selfish.
2006-12-21 11:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I love you is not. Anybody can say those words. You have to have the rest to back you up. Spending time together. Taking time to listen to each other. And sex as much as you can get and depending on how old you are how often. Keeping the lines of communication open is the most important.
2006-12-21 09:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by orca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what exactly is "wrong" or if anything is wrong, so I can't help there. But, I can tell you one thing, love is not enough to make any relationship work. And saying, "I love you" is definitely not enough. Actions speak louder than words. Plus, there are variations of love.
2006-12-21 09:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did you learn English??? YIKES!!!
Just have lots of dirty sex, that makes a marriage fun!!
2006-12-21 09:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋