2006-12-21 01:35:31 · 23 answers · asked by shez_a_maneater 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Were Infertile? Not a big problem but Now I'm OK!!
2006-12-21 01:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually when i got pregnant with my first daughter they informed me that because my blood type was a negative that if the babies blood was a positive and by chance mixed with my blood my body would reject it, and every pregnancy after that. However, they give you a shot that helps do something even if the blood mixes together.So I could only relate to that. I was heart broken but realized that there are so many kids in the world today that need a good place to live and if I couldn't produce my own offspring than I would have to adopt and give those children a nice safe place to live. I figure god has plans for all of us and if he made you infertile than he wanted something else for you. maybe he saw a side of you that no one else sees and that's that you have a heart of gold and could handle an adoption. Or maybe even foster care. So yes I would be upset but I know there are other ways around having children!
2006-12-21 09:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I already have two kids, but to answer your question - if I were told that I am infertile- I would feel horrible, first mad at myself, at the world, I wouldn't understand why me, why me if there are so many women out there that are having kids and are throwing them away or killing them- I wouldn't understand why if I love kids so much I can conceive!!! I would cry and cry my eyeball out( just a saying). Then after all the fighting with myself and with others I would sit and talk to God- and ask him WHY- where did I go wrong, why me. At last I think I would understand that HE has a special mission for me and that why I probably can't have kids.
2006-12-21 09:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Taz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doctors don't always know everything. I was told that I would never be able to carry a baby to full term. I had a few mishaps but I now have two little boys. It's up to your body and the Almighty to decide if and when you'll have kids. Don't give up.
2006-12-21 10:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first five years of my first marriage, I thought I was. It was a horrible feeling. I kept wondering what I did wrong to deserve this. But it turned out fine. We just needed to improve our technique and now we have three sons.
2006-12-21 09:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Disbelief at first. Sadness next. Self-pity later.
lt will come to pass. What matters most is you're very much alive and capable of doing many things.
Just think "l'm such a great person. Period."
2006-12-21 09:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive been going to the dr. for some time now, and I think that will be brought up next time I go. I dont like it, I do have a son. But you know how that is you dont want it utill its gone.
2006-12-21 09:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by metallica_rocks0122 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my son was a miracle--which he is. Honestly I would feel so incomplete like I was not a whole person.
2006-12-21 09:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told that one time before, and now I have a 4 month old, so thanks to God, I have the chance of enjoying a child of my own.
2006-12-21 09:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Jacksonville, FL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have of had a difficult decision made for me - I won't be having kids after all
2006-12-21 09:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by Andy M Thompson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋