im a gay guy that dated and made out with 1 guy from CL (no sex) and it was alright.before that i hinted him that i have feelings for him. he wanted me to stand by him but everytime i try to talk to him he's like he's not there, either busy or just simply ignoring me. it's bothering me because i don't want to lose him but i don't want to be the only one trying to work it out.
2006-12-21 01:08:01 · 15 answers · asked by sad_lonely 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
find a time to sit down and talk to him when its just the two of you. invite him out for coffee or something like that. tell him how you feel, tell him your interested and would like to persue this but you need to know how he feels about it. don't overdo it though you don't want to scare him off. if he wants to be with you too great!! but if not then back off, your right you don't want to be the one doing all the work. there are lots of guys out there and you will find one that you can be with and he will feel the same way about you!! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-21 01:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just not that into you. You need to have a little pride and move on. If he don't want you why would you want him.
Just go on and meet someone new. For Gods sake don't talk to him why put yourself through that he had a fun evening with you but is not interested in more why do you want to hurt yourself and play the victim God gave you a set so have the balls to ignore him and move on.
2006-12-21 10:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pretty much answered your own question when you said you didn't want to be "the only one trying to work it out".
Life doesn't work that way. It sounds to me like this has not gotten very far at all before major roadblocks were thrown out there, so I would suggest cutting your losses and moving on. It takes two.....just remember that!
Blessings!
2006-12-21 09:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Steven Keith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter, tell him how you feel, that way you know he is at least getting the message. If he responds the way that you want, there's something to work towards, if he doesn't contact you or responds inappropriately, then forget him and move on. There are so many wonderful people in this world, you shouldn't waste your time, as the cliche goes, life is too short.
2006-12-21 09:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cassandra M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My dear dear son, I think you already know the answer. Do yourself the favour of closing the book quietly on this one and finding someone worthy of you. For someone who wanted you to stand by him, he's doing a very poor job of it. You deserve so much better and the right man is out there. You just have to find him. Blessings.
2006-12-21 09:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is deciding and you keep going after him he does not need to make a decision, he will keep holding you at arms length for a long time. You should push him to make a decision. Move on, do not keep holding on, and this will make him act on his feelings. At least that way you will know. But the adage is right, let him go, if he comes back... well you know.
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2006-12-21 09:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya, give it up dude! Sounds like he is hinting that he is not interested but unfortunately isn't saying so like a coward. Move on, there's more out there. :o)
2006-12-21 09:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. Are you so needy that you will let him treat you like this for any longer?? You can find someone else. And if, in the process of your 'looking around', dating, etc, he changes his mind, then maybe he'll be apologetic enough for you to take him back.
2006-12-21 09:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you need to talk about the two of you. If he ignores you tell him you have to say goodbye. You can't spend all your time on someone who pays no attention to you.
2006-12-21 10:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-21 09:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋