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my little sister is 13 and she wants to know how to have a baby
my mom and dad passed away so i had to tell her about her perid
and bra's and sutff like that but i never thought she was ready to know how to have a baby im only 23
i do have a girlfriend but im not sure if its her place to tell her
my little sister DOES have a boy friend who is 14 (all most 15)

should i tell her???

2006-12-21 00:19:27 · 11 answers · asked by jamie m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

11 answers

If I were you, I would sit down with her and ask her why she wants to know. Don't hide the truth from her - the consequences could be more damaging than explaining the facts to her.

How long have you been with your girlfriend? Maybe you and she can talk with your little sister.

Kids are growing up way fast today. I would not want to see your little sister hurt or taken advantage of. As her older brother and parental figure in her life, you must take all precautions to protect and love her so that she grows up to be a knowledgeable young woman.

2006-12-21 00:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by sugar_pink_candy 5 · 2 0

I think it's best if it comes from you since you have been there for everything else. It's time to talk with her about the birds and bee's. Make sure she knows how to protect herself and how much she'll mess up her life if she has sex unprotected and ALL the risks. Your parents would be so proud of you. Your all your sister has left make sure your there for her, it will be the most important thing you'll ever do!!

2006-12-21 00:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0 0

Yes you should tell her, don't forget there are young girls
out ther already having sex.
They had a girl on a talk show that started having sex at
age 10.
she may just want to know, so do educate her.

2006-12-21 00:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0 0

Yes, you also need to tell her how special sex is, and that she should ALWAYS use protection.

At 13, she already has heard way too much from her friends, she needs the facts and fast.

Don't delay this talk because it makes you uncomfortable, she needs to know.

2006-12-21 00:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Gem 7 · 2 0

I agree with Gem and also might I suggest talk with your girlfriend and see if she would be comfortable with doing the talk together. Well done and have a very Merry Christmas.

2006-12-21 00:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by polynesiachick 4 · 0 0

you should educated her about sex and etc. because at this age girl are going through stage that might make them more pressure into doing act that could in the end damage their whole life.
P.S. why the hell do your avatar look like mine

2006-12-21 00:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 1 0

i think u shouldnt tell her cuz like she might be like " i want a baby" and u know guys so yea shes going to be prego at age 13 or 14 so u can tell her but like tell her not to do it until she gets married or like 20ish age.

2006-12-21 04:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by eminem man 1 · 1 0

Do you have a female relative, i think it would be a little easier coming for them.. Why does she want to know? Is she trying to get pregnant?

2006-12-21 00:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0 1

if u don't tell her she will learn it from tv or school. it may be easier if u have your gf or an aunt or something tell her

2006-12-21 01:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0 0

ask one uf ur friend girls it will be easier to her understand if it is coming from women who is still yown

2006-12-21 00:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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