I have recently been diagnosed with anxiety and depression. I woke up one morning looking at my "what I thought to be" soulmate and felt as though I did not love him anymore?! I want to be with him. He is perfect. I dont want anyone else. I am still physically attracted to him but am so scared cause I feel like my feelings have changed? I still want to see him every night and do nice things for him....We recently moved in, I finished exams and have been talking about possibly getting engaged? Could this just be my body reacting in an odd way to stress? I want to be with him forever and I think I could enjoy my life with him I am just having my doubts. Little things bother me here and there but I think thats normal....I feel like I am leading him on by telling him "I love you too" because I am unsure of my feelings.....In past relationships I think I mistaked jealousy as love and with this one I have no need to feel jealous and therefore am questioning my feelings. Please help?!?!
2006-12-21 00:03:32 · 8 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes you can fall out of Love.....going to say it but it sounds like you do Love him ....when you say that he is your soul mate then the magic is there you just have to reach for it...stress can do alot to a person...look at him and let him know that you need him right now...just a hug or even a certain look can go along way...
2006-12-21 00:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Maggiemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be your reaction to the anxiety and depression. Go to a doctor and get an anti-anxiety medication, that may help. Also love is not a constant thing. I've been married 35 years and I love my husband. Some days I look at him and wonder how the hell I stay with him and others the love is bursting out of me. True love is a rollercoaster ride. It has peaks and valleys. During the peaks it's wonderful but, the real test is the valleys. That's where commitment comes in. Are you committed to the relationship?? If you say he is perfect for you, you're physically attracted to him, and you want to with him forever, why are you picking the relationship apart? I imagine you are scared. Commitment is a scary thing and it should be. It's the biggest decisions you'll ever make. That could be the main reason you are pulling back from him.
2006-12-21 00:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by mjm52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't "over think" life. Your head so jumbled up with questions! Your brain can't process that many thoughts all at the same time (re-read your post!) and that's what will cause depression and anxiety attacts. Settle down (literally) to ONE thought at a time, and don't try to beat the answer out of you. Just relax and try to see how you FEEL about things. Let the answer come to you in a calm, relaxing mood. You'll be fine if you let go alittle.
2006-12-21 00:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I understand where you are coming from. I woke up next to someone I wasn't sure I wanted in my bed for a while. Things aren't perfect unless you try and perfect them. When you wake up look at that person and bring to mind everything about them that makes you happy. Stress can do things that aren't good. But you will get past them, it's just stress after all.
Good Luck , Much Love,
Andrew
2006-12-21 00:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always gone with my gut in relationships. Whether you have anxiety or depression or whatever, if you have doubts now there is obviously something bothering you. Try to figure out what it is and if you can't, leave the dude!
2006-12-21 00:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with him. You still love him and just don't realize it. Especially since you are diagnosed with depression and anxeity. Stick around for a while and see how it turns out.
2006-12-21 00:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by Orange Lipbalm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know...that is something that is happening to me once in a while wth the person I'm with!I'd really like to help...maybe if we just let things go day by day...maybe things will be clear tomorrow...
2006-12-21 00:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by jokersmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Dirty Stripper...trust your instincts...
2006-12-21 00:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋