Last week while cleaning out the closet I found some porn magazines, they were the normal playboy type except two. These two were called Sissy Maids. Seems the theme here was all about wives and girl friends that have decided to transform their males into little sissy maids and other wise feminized slave. They forced their men to dress in maid’s outfits and perform all the cleaning choirs around the home. They also locked their sissy slaves in chastity devices and for the most part they all acquired new boy friends. On some occasions they even forced their sissy slaves to orally service their new boy friends. My question is, since he reads this he must want this, right? He must want to be reduced to a little sissy enfemmed maid and treated as such, so should I do this to him? I have been researching all this on line since I fond the magazines. What would you other women do? Has anyone else here done this to a man?
2006-12-19 23:46:57 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs Lisa 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd just ask him what his fantasies are, without necessarily gibing away that you found the magazines. It may take some talking, but what he likes will come out eventually--and if you're both cool with it, go for it. My boyfriend and I have done this with great benefit to us both.
2006-12-19 23:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by angk 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You found all this in a magazine right? Hmm, well its been my experience that most vanilla women who found this kind of magazine would have been horrified at the seeming femizination of their masculine husband, and would be writing about how sick he is.
So my guess is here that you are actually a man who has a sissy maid fantasy, and obviously a need for deep humiliation.
If you are actually a wife who wants to play this out for her husband, search "sissy maid" online and you will find both BDSM groups and sissy maid training sites. I advise you get involved with your local BDSM or Fetish community and find like minded woman to mentor you. There are also several good good, just search BDSM on Amazon and you will find a huge list.
But if you are the guy I think you are, then hon, either get yourself involved with the Fetish/BDSM local community and find yourself a FemDom who has the same kink you do or, if you purposefully married a vanilla woman, knowing you have this kink and now you are trying to figure out how to do it, you are out of luck. Vanilla women do not "turn" kinky. So your choices are, cheat and lie to her (which is what most of you do), divorce her and save her the humiliation and pain of having you cheat and lie to her, or find a way to dress secretly and hope you don't get caught.
Crossdresser typically do not want to admit that the kink they have is powerful, and they will marry vanilla women without telling them that they get off on wearing "sissy" clothing and cannot live with the consequences.
2006-12-20 01:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First go shopping & get him a sexy French Maid uniform, complete with petticoats, corset, g-string, black fishnet stockings, 5" pumps, breastforms, make-up, wig, nails & anything else you saw in the magazines that you'd like to see him wear.
And when he gets home from work one Friday have the magazines sitting in his favorite chair with the packages right next to his chair.
Then while he has that puzzled look on his face seeing his magazines, ask him if he likes to look at maids or if he'd like to be a maid. While he tries to explain himself tell him that you'd like to look at him being your maid. Then tell him to open up his packages & let him see what he's going to wear.
Make sure you get some toys for yourself so you can break in your new maid.
2006-12-20 19:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by J 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I buy Wooden Boat magazine. While I love boats I've never owned a wooden boat and don't really have any desire to. I do admire them and find them interesting.
Maybe your husband has looked at these magazines the same way. It is interesting pornography, it is fantasy material.
He may or may not want to experiment with it, or with some part of it. Many men find giving up control to be very erotic.
Like others have said this will require communication skills to ferret out.
Good luck!
2006-12-20 00:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
might just try putting a pair of panties on him first and see the reaction..... if he gets hard then proceed.
Also, you might be a dominant female. why not contact some local BDSM group out there and meet others like you. Those women will be glad to give you pointers and it's nice meeting like minded people.
2006-12-20 04:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am a submissive Tgirl. i think it would be right for you to dress your hubby as a maid, but also have her be a maid full time around the house.
go to sissysearch.com and learn more about how to, etc. then let ME know how it went. i may want you to make me your slave/maid/sissy as well.
i am a pre op TS (MTF).
2006-12-20 04:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by newmichelle1959 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's treating you like a wife. If you're not happy about everything, then it's up to you to open the dialogue and let him know what you're thinking. Good luck.
2016-03-13 08:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Karin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman but maybe I can answer. A fantasy is just that. Make it a reality and it's no longer fantasy. However, there are plenty of people who are "kinky". Some men like their wives/gf's etc to dress as school girls, some men like to be put in nappies and mothered, gee, it's a weird world. My advice, casually mention the concept (his fantasy) and see his response. Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't. If you "confront" him on it, you may do more harm than good, even lose him. I'd tread very carefully on the subject, well, that's my advice!
2006-12-20 01:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think that the only place you are ever going to find that answer is from your partner. I applaud your efforts at research, it is just that my experience with this issue has led me to suggest that you discuss this with your partner when you are both comfortable and relaxed, in a non-confrontational manner.
Hope it works out.
2006-12-19 23:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by beaton_tlc 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not experiment with small things like panties and bras, he might like to do alot more things for you. My wife has me dress up in dresses and panties and a bra along with make-up and have me help her. Every once in a while if i do something wrong she spank my satin *** and let me if it is the wrong way.
2006-12-20 04:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sef B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋