I am a gay and would like to be straight. I do not want to get something in the form of therapy or medicines. Is there any way in which I can become straight? I am not sad that I am gay, but I want to be straight. I am not against homosexuality either. Please suggest.
2006-12-19 23:19:50 · 11 answers · asked by sandhigdham 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
'Gay' and 'straight' are just terms used to categorise people by their sexual orientation. At the moment you are solely attracted to men as this is the gender you probably feel more comfortable with. At an early age many people find the opposite sex 'sexually threatening' and never really experiment with the unknown. Becoming more in touch with your sexuality may awaken certain desires in you which may allow you to be more open with the opposite sex. You should embrace your homosexuality but also try to discover yourself sexually. You can only discover this for yourself and in the end if you turn out to be bisexual then there's really nothing wrong with that. Have a fling with an experienced girl, you might find she knows a trick or two which you'll probably like. Just be sure to be true to your nature. If you really like girls then you'll be more open-minded to the sexual desires you want with them. Otherwise, I highly doubt that therapy or medicines will help. In fact, I've never heard of anyone being converted from their sexual orientation through these methods.
2006-12-20 02:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by NiP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is not something u chose. If ur gay, ur gay. If ur straight ur straight! U can go to 1 of those ex gay groups, but most of them turn out to be (believe it or not) gay!!!!! Someone here said u need to deal with being gay, i agree!!!!!!!!! Just take who u are and embrace it!
2006-12-20 01:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Imanobody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, you cannot change who you innately are. pretending to be someone you're not will only make you more miserable. were you raised being taught that being gay is bad? I know you don't want to, but I would suggest some therapy to help you deal with and accept who you are and be happy. you can't be happy living a lie....I've been there!
2006-12-20 00:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you asked this question. It gives straight people the opportunity to see that you can not choose to be gay. If that were true, people such as yourself wouldn't want to be straight. To answer your question, there is no way to change your sexual preference, it is something you are born with. Many people hide their sexual preference but are very unhappy their entire life. My advice to you is to just accept yourself. I know it is difficult, because people can very very judgemental. I just accepted myself recently and I'm glad I did. Please do the same. You deserve to be happy.
2006-12-20 16:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually if you want to be straight, you don't need a therapy but a mind-set. Your life is in your hands and you can live it as you want but it is advised that you always make the right choice. Avoid meeting other partners, and be persistent in your decision. to say, it better to be straight.
2006-12-20 01:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by paa joe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you can be something your not. If your gay enjoy it, if you like the lady's maybe your by sexual. Find someone who fills all your needs and just be yourself. But more important do what needs to be done to be happy. If you must change something about yourself you might try a hypnotist.
2006-12-20 00:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are gay you will be gay the day you die.
Maybe therapy to help you deal with that is in order.
2006-12-19 23:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
just start dating gurls again and dont date any guys its that simple sooner or later you will change. no one understands what it means to be gay so there is no way to say that you are gay til you die if you feel like you want to be straight then just be straight.
2006-12-19 23:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by lucifer 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Simply stop lookin at men and start lookin at women maybe have sex with a ho
2006-12-20 00:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by fellster1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry but there is no magic pill. Try to enjoy your gayness.
2006-12-20 00:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋