I was seeing this guy for 3 months, he's a chef so part of his training was to go and train in a kitchen in a different part of the country for 2 months. Everything was great and i was falling in love with him. But suddenly he stopped calling. I was very hurt. I have now found out that while he was away he got involved in drugs, he's off them now and looking for another chance with me. What should i do. Does everyone deserve a second chance?
2006-12-19 23:13:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone deserves a second chance, it's the third one which deserve questioning. You were falling in love with him, then you would probably know what he's like. Is he the kind of person that would do this again?
Either way, at times like these it's nice to be a good friend and help him give it up. he he comes close to taking them again, just 'close' be there to stop him.
Everyone deserves a second chance, you just have to make that chance available to him.
2006-12-19 23:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Vertigo addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I believe he deserves a second chance that is entirely dependent on his current situation. Rehab is important for drug users, even if they used for a short period of time. Also are you willing to become involved with someone who was and in the future could be once again involved with drugs?
2006-12-19 23:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he deserves another chance. You only have to give him one, if it doesn't work out then end it.
Rule #1 he must stay clean
Rule #2 honesty
Rule#3 If 1 or 2 are broken relationship over
2006-12-19 23:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Maroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he deserves a second chance if you are sure he is really interested in you for who you are and not as a crutch to help him through a difficult time. That is something he can only do himself. Personally I wouldn't give him a third chance.
2006-12-19 23:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by thewarrinoates 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think he is worth a second chance as he is in need of some help and support to get through the difficulty of drugs. He oviously wants u back if he rung u back and then i think that he deserves a second chance. Help him, he needs it.
2006-12-19 23:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if there was really some thing between two of u then y not each individual has to geta chance to become good in life and after all he is ready to get out of the bad side i think u can help him n give him a chance
life is unpredictable unless u give a chance u may regret in life tat u had a oppotunity to get together n keep regreting abut it
so it seems no harm in giving one chance isnt it
2006-12-19 23:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to give him a second chance that's fine - but is he ready for a relationship? How long has he been off drugs? God Bless you both:)
2006-12-19 23:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Everyone deserves a second chance.
2006-12-19 23:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could give him another chance, but if he goes back to the drugs. He would have to be looking elsewhere. Good Luck.
2006-12-19 23:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him another chance, but take it really slow at getting emotionally involved again. If you go slow, and he plays up again, you wont be as hurt because you took it slowly. Be careful, and good luck!
2006-12-19 23:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by natalie2unat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋