I think i am quite choosey, i wish i wasn't but i cant help it. I still haven't found anyone i would even think about marring, and i'm starting to freak out. Should I be freaking out or do I still have time will I ever find someone?
2006-12-19 23:04:50 · 22 answers · asked by snipesnab 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good for you, you don't have to settle yes the right one will come, and you'll be glad you were so choosy...
2006-12-19 23:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok just calm down. If a women was sending out vibes she wanted to get married asap the man would run a mile and think she was a freak!!
you need to relax. The reason your so choosy is probably because even though you want to get married, deep down your probably afraid.
The right person will come along once you've calmed down and stop putting pressure on yourself your only 29 for gods sake, if you were 40 ok id start freaking but your not so enjoy being single and give people a chance
2006-12-20 07:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of understand how you're feeling, I think. I just turned 30 last month, and I'm not married. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend of three years, but as my 30th birthday approached, I started to question this same thing...will I ever get married? Is the person I'm with the one? I think a lot of it has to do with age...once you reach a certain point in life, you start to wonder why you don't have the same things other people your age have. But it will happen for you, you just have to be patient and don't try rushing into something as major as marriage.
2006-12-20 07:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Heather C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile.....you have plenty of time to find the right person. You will know it when you meet her....she will be different from the rest and when you look around the room with other women in there with her, she will be all that you see and admire.....(that is what my husband tells me) Being "picky" is a terrific attribute to your character. Always be picky.....especially a life changing advent as marriage. Marriage is something you do not take lightly.
I wish you the very best. Take your time and don't rush it.....when you find her...she will be worth waiting for. Happy Holidays!!!
2006-12-20 08:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by samantha H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... do you HAVE to get married? If so... do you go into every meeting with someone new with the thought of whether or not they're a potential partner? RE-LAX. Make man-friends and talk to them, you may learn a lot. Oh, and break open a bottle of red and watch When Harry Met Sally -again! 29 is JUST a number.
2006-12-20 07:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Arsengal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some time left. However maybe you ARE too choosey. After all, none of those women you have looked at, and none of the ones you will meet, are perfect. Neither are you. Think about it.
2006-12-20 07:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marring....as in marring furniture....look up the word.
As for marrying, well if you are choosy (another dictionary project for you) then you may end up chasing your idea of perfection right to the grave.
There is no such thing as a perfect person or relationship. Relationship require effort and understanding.
2006-12-20 07:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing is the perfect person for you. Looking for that kind of a thing is likely to keep you hunting and hunting for quite a while longer.
With the complexities of human nature, its nigh impossible to find someone who compliments you perfectly, has the appearance you desire, etc.
Rather its often better to learn how to find someone who can adapt, and likewise, you will also need to learn to adapt and accept a person for who she is. Accept in totality, accept the person as a person, not by characteristic.
Once you and your significant other can adapt and change for each other, free of selfishness, you'll have a very strong relationship.
However, its doubtful you'll find such a person in the world such as it is.
2006-12-20 07:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dai S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young and you will find someone who will love you.. though u said that you are quite choosey, i can say that if love hit you, you will find out its the opposite of what ur searching for.. thats love.. expect the unexpected... but you will eventually fall for the right person at the right time at the right place...
2006-12-20 07:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still have time. On average men and women are waiting to marry longer and longer. Also do you want to just marry anyone, to just turn around and get a divorce that could cost yu thousands of dollars?
2006-12-20 07:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Freak! I'm 46! Been Married twice. I still haven't found anybody worth marrying either. You have no idea how much money you save on attorney fees staying single!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 07:44:57 · answer #11 · answered by Mr Brightsides 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋