there is a girl that is piss at me because her x asked me out and i told him yes how can i tell her to stop buggin me and to leave me alone pleaseeeeeeee help answer as soon
2006-12-19 22:55:37 · 18 answers · asked by Tinkerbell101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her that it's not your fault that he doesn't want her. Yes, it will sting but sometimes you have to hurt people to get your point across.
2006-12-19 22:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people don't like confrontation but if you can.. confront her.
Tell her that the fact that her bf broke up with her has nothing to do with you.
Speech her off good and make sure your girls are there in case it gets violent.
You can also have the guy talk to her in front of you having him put her in her place.
You can also call her mother and speak to her about her daughter's attitude toward you that you must suffer for no reason because her ex wants to go out with you.
Remember this, she's desperate and angry and bitter because of her loss so her actions can be erratic.
Be careful
2006-12-19 23:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by ilyena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have Opinons:
Get a bat and swing to mess out of her
Get a restraining order
Police
Tell the boy who liikes you to tell the girl to leave you and him alone
Tell a principal (if its at school)
Rocks in a sock and keep it in your backpack (if its at school)
Or you can look her another guy BUT if you do make sure its secret beacuse the girl might think that she chased you away.
2006-12-19 23:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Black D93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is her X for a reason - obviously things weren't going well between them. You can speak to her and tell her that it's childish to expect from him never to date again.After all if it wasn't you, it would be somebody else. So tell her that she'd better leave him alone and go on with her life and let him go on with his. You can also speak to the boy and tell him that his ex is disturbing you - I think he can handle that the best.
2006-12-19 23:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Victory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her unless she makes a hostile move. If it seems too much trouble to be in a relationship then leave.
But I haven't been in a situation like that so I wouldn't know for sure.
2006-12-21 23:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her leave you alone, although you can, and should, ask her to leave you alone. If she won't, then just ignore her and get on with your life. Let's face it, some people are just sore loosers! Good luck!
2006-12-19 22:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. You can't control other people, just yourself. If she has an issue with you and her ex..... tell her to take it up with him, NOT you, as it's not your problem!! Also the you could ask the bloke concerned for a bit of moral support.
2006-12-19 23:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his bf to handle her and tell her that if she has any problems, it should be sorted with the person to whom she feels attached, that is her ex-bf, because he was the one to ask you out. You have nothing to do with her and his relationship dynamics.
2006-12-19 22:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous of you. I don't think if you talk to her it will do any good. She probably won't listen to you because she is so mad. It's easier for her to blame you than face the fact that he doesn't want her anymore. You need someone other than yourself to talk to her. I think if her ex talked to her about this it might help. You might also try talking to one of her friends about this and asking her to help, or having one of your friends talk to one of her friends. Good luck.
2006-12-19 23:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her stop. You can just report unacceptable conduct (threats, etc). If she's just cranky and talking bad about you, there's nothing to be done.
2006-12-19 22:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋