Do you think your appearance, which is still sort of 'exotic' here in the States (except in big cities) gives you any advantage over white chicks or other minorities? Do guys give you an extra look because you're 'different'. Do people think you must be smart/good at math/martial arts, that kind of thing? Or maybe the opposite, they talk down to you, think you don't know good english, other girls are jealous, etc. Do men expect you to be quiet and docile/subservient? Always been curious...
2006-12-19 22:15:25 · 1 answers · asked by AmigaJoe 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
The question for you to ask is why do you choose an Asian woman? The qualities of asian women has been exotic and different. Perhaps that's why men in the western world choose them. Perhaps they are subsevient. perhaps they have to work twice as hard to get to where they want to be....as equal as their western sisters...not necessarily in size or height!! And to get there, they have to work twice as hard to get recognised. I don't know what you mean by 'advantage' as I don't see any of this that we take into account. When I was in the States I remember that I was all the above and no acception. And perhaps western men expect asian woman to be just that, docile and subsevient apart from the exotic and different. And many asian woman don't really mind being this as long as it makes a marriage work. So, what is the difference that western chicks are missing out on?
2006-12-23 03:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by singirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋