..and my Husband plans on spending his Christmas with his girl friend whom I don't know!! Is that right...or wrong?
2006-12-19 19:41:13 · 13 answers · asked by endlessgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
..and my Husband plans on spending his Christmas with his girl friend whom I don't know!! Is that right...or wrong? (BTW, I'm Going away to visit the family) NO HARSH ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 19:51:34 · update #1
Because of the way you've worded your question, I think everyone is assuming your husband has a girlfriend, as in someone he is having an affair with. Did you mean to say your husband has a female acquaintance he is planning to spend Christmas with so he won't be alone during the holidays?
Even if they are just friends, it's definitely not a good idea for them to spend Christmas alone together. Out of respect for your marriage, he shouldn't risk putting himself in a situation that has the potential to lead to trouble. If he can't go away with you, he should spend Christmas with his family, his trusted male friends, his married friends, or alone. You can always have a belated celebration together when you return.
Good luck!
2006-12-19 21:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you wanted to spend Christmas with him. I feel that it is wrong that he has a GF and not spending it with you. But right now, you need to be with famly this time of year. The love and support from them will help you through this stressful time..
good luck to you..
2006-12-20 03:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is family time. Time for love. It is better that you stay with your husband or invite him to come along with you. Try to give your husband the best you can and he will never look out for satisfaction from outside. Keep your love for him growing and glowing. Love is the secret to get him back.
2006-12-20 03:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Tere - educator & professor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you still married?
If you are then why are you spending Christmas apart and hell if he has a gfriend whom you dont know then yeah thats wrong
2006-12-20 03:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by sweet - angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have marital problems. It seems weird that your husband would rather spend Christmas with his girlfriend than his wife.Do whatever makes you happy. Blow your husband.I REFUSE to pass judgement on this situation.
2006-12-20 04:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His g/f? And you don't know her? Then Hell yes that is wrong.
Why isn't he going with you to visit your family? You are his family and he should be with you.
2006-12-20 03:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wrong for not taking him with you
you don't want to take him with you so he could have some fun but you don't want him to have fun alone either
2006-12-20 04:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND ARE BOTH WRONG!
GET SOME HELP, YOU NEED IT.
2006-12-20 03:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~ISABELLA~*~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant let ur hubby do tht..
both of u must seek councelling..
2006-12-20 04:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by For peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong(plain stupid)....for not divorcing him sooner.
2006-12-20 03:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by nannygoat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋