I have exactly 3 "friends". I've known all of them for a long time. My closest friend is kind, caring & has lots of friends. But she hardly keeps promises she makes to me and can't keep a secret. I see her like once a yr and talk to her about once a month even though we live about 45 minutes away from each other. But she has helped me so much and bought me stuff. The 2nd is also sweet but I don't feel close to her & we rarely talk. She kind of rentered my life a few months ago after we hadn't spoken in yrs. The 3rd pretends to like me but I'm sure it's cause she has no one else to turn to. She's living w/ me at the moment. When she was away at college she didn't bother w/ me. By no means have I been the perfect friend. I'm sure all 3 have complaints about me. Oh yeah...I'm the type of person who doesn't make friends easily.
2006-12-19 19:29:50 · 9 answers · asked by eiyti g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I can empatsize with you. I have moved two years ago but never bother to keep most of my relationships. So don't be like me keep in touch with your friends even though you may not be very close to them. Someday you need friends.
2006-12-19 19:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Contessa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well,u r not a rare person who doesn't make friends easily.However,i dont know how rational u r..cos if u look at it rationally,u can resolve quite easily..like until now,consider, ur friends have "used" u..which in my opinion is very very good...as u r useful!! being with people when they have no one around them is the bestgift u can ever give them not only in thier lifetime but also in u lifetime..dont forget they were also with u when u were alone...both of u were equally selfish.However,when u have moved out,there r chances that u meet more people....and who knowes u might like someone.But keep in touch with these three..as it is u see thm on rare occasions,i dont see how that should matter.Nonetheless,dont make judgements about them as it'll be extremely difficult for u to interact not only with them but also with every person u meet.they have been good to you,just remember the good times..and dont over do anything.Let things be the way they are....keep in touch,as if u dont there will hardly be any difference between you and them.however,theyll eventually realise your worth,trust me!
2006-12-19 19:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by larkspur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should keep in contact with them. I have moved many times and have not kept in touch with friends i have made along the way and now I regret it. Even if you talk to them once a year or see them every five years having someone care about you and you care about them will make you a better person and enrich your life. when you're older if you don't keep in contact with them you'll always wonder what ever happened to so and so.
2006-12-19 19:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Monica_PS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. I mean, no one's twisting your arm to do so, but it would be nice to keep in touch with SOMEONE. What I did after moving is I kept in touch with all of those sort-of friends on a once-a-month basis. That's where I set aside one evening every single month to call up everyone and catch up. Worked for me, maybe you could benefit with that plan too!
2006-12-19 19:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that but the best bet is to stay intouch via email or snail mail.It will keep you in their hearts and vice-versa why forget all the memories when you move on into the furure?
2006-12-19 19:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first have a bf or gf with you and ask him what his situation is and if he won't desire to work out a DR> for it LMAO? then very kindly as i be responsive to you're, tell him if he doesnt cease doing this around you the place you could discover him that your going to checklist him as you detect it gross and could no longer tolerate this around you . that could desire to do the trick whether it could make him in comparison to you very plenty ,your determination do what you think of is nice for you yet dont permit anyone and that i do propose anyone act groos in front of you without you doing somewhat concern approximately it.
2016-12-18 16:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly you don't sound like you like your 'friends' very much and they don't seem to like you from how you've described them. I also thing that if your even questioning on wither or not to stay friends with them you can't like them very much so I'd say no. Don't bother. If you can honestly say you don't care one way or another about staying in contact with them then don't. It'll be easier on all of you.
2006-12-19 19:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by babylovesu06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can give them your address e-mail add and drop them a note when you get settled if they respond you will know in the meantime you are moving on and you will have an opportunity to meet new people who may have the same interests as you.
2006-12-19 19:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2006-12-19 19:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋