I have been married for 3 and 1/2 years, we have been togher for all together 5 years. we have two beautiful kids.
I am looking for ways to spoil my hubby and spice up our lifes
but please it cant cost alot of money, where i come from money is scares
2006-12-19 19:14:40 · 21 answers · asked by sweet - angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi there !!!! How wonderful that after 5 years you want to find ways to create spark and magic, good for you.
Need not be expensive at all, do not worry.
Fix yourself up, your hair nicely brushed and clean
when you walk by him, slightly brush your body against his, then gently look back with a seduction look, gentle but seductive
Give him a hug just because
Whisper in his ear sweet nothings
Leave little notes for him
make him his favorite dinner
set the table with candles, you can use wild flowers to make like a wreath under the candles or even some pine branches.
take a bath together, bathe each other, when done, rub lotion on each other,gently, no rush, enjoy each others company
Have conversations about the dreams and goals you both had in the beginning of your relationship
enjoy a glass of wine together, gazing at the star lit sky at night
Look into his eyes, and tell him how much you love him and how much he means to you
If you have a sexy tank top and cute undies, get all washed up, perfumed, the whole nine yards, have the kids with mom or a friend for a couple of hours, dress to kill ( if you do not have lingerie , improvise) nice makeup, hair fixed and wait for him to come home, candle light dinner,even if it is macaroni and cheese.
Take walks together
hold hands in the car or when out and about
You can do so many things to spice up a relationship, I wish you all the happiness this world can offer
Happy Holidays
love light and peace
2006-12-19 19:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get someone to babysit your kids and spend some quality time with him alone. Communication is of paramount importance in any relationship. Not only you but your hubby could also think of ways to spice up your love life. Brainstorm; have a discussion. Both of you may have fun, and laugh at each other's wacky ideas, doing so. Have a Merry Christmas!
2006-12-19 19:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dominance is cheap so i his ties(use to tie him up)
get a feather from adult store(about 5-10 bucks)
and tease him, be the dom, make him feel wanted.
have your way with him. on the lighter side
go buy karma sutra dvd, about 35-45 bucks.
its more of intimate natured not so much dom or
submissive, get kids a baby sitter, and enjoy each other.
set aside money for a weekend at the motel every two months or whatever like that.
2006-12-19 19:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by sharma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters you could just try a number of new positions such as doggy style etc. there is also oral sex, you could try to get a number of toys which usually don't tend to cost much money at all, places like ebay usually have them very cheap... if nothing else try renting a good porno and watch it together, its a cheap but effective way to get the job done...
2006-12-19 19:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try different positions, try taking him out on spur of the moments to him, try dancing around in lingerie, getting a babysitter and getting a nice but cheap motel room for the night and making it romantic but exotic!! Magazines have allot of tips in them about spicing your love life. Allot of alone time and sexual romantic things help to spoil him and spice things up!! Good Luck!!!
2006-12-19 19:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by noramom4life101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get comfortable to the kinky stuff if you want to spice things up. Talk dirty to him or get some toys. You can even get some sexy lingerie. If you're not willing to do any of these things then you're sex life is a lost cause.
2016-05-22 23:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the kids are in bed and he thinks it's going to be a plain ol' night. Go in and change into a cute lacey thing and go sit on his lap.
Call him at work and say terribly embarrassingly sexual things to him. Tell him exactly what you want to do to him when he gets home. Make dinner for the kids, put them to bed. Then do the things you told him about on the phone.
2006-12-19 19:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by 101pupil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your hubby to spooge on your face, then go for a walk downtown with a cardboard sign that says "i've got spooge on my face", and have your husband jump out as a a geurrilla photographer to catch peoples surprised reactions.
that would be pretty spicy
if you've got the guts to do it.
2006-12-19 19:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by henri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a truck stop, wait inside and have him "pick" you up...role playing.
Go find a woodsy area and do it there at night.
Buy a colored light bulb (red is best) some lingerie and play "bedroom stripper"...
Need more ideas???
2006-12-19 19:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the library and read up on sex. many books have creative ideas for spicing up a routine sex life. better yet let your own creativity take over..
2006-12-19 19:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋