people i need some good advise from u...I'm feeling self-pity and thinking that I'm only alone in my own world..why just can't i forget those bad experienced in my life...in my teenager, i've be'n mentally depressed...how it shame on me!!.. Hve u xprienced ur parents got into troubled jus bcoz of religion?..I'm pointing them the reason why iam like the way i am now..u knw it's a long2 story but ill make 8 short..my ex b.f depart from me when i was depressed..then i didn't finish the last year of my course because i was discreminate by our dean..the last was my parents got in2 troubled n the'r hurting each other physically n we separated from own house cause of family troubles..because of that happening..i've taught myself to be a loner and i felt i hav no more pride 2 face oder people too...because of my failures and experience,i feel that i hav no mor room 2 d success i deserve..Would i change the way i am now?..what can u share help w/ regards 2 myself now..need help?
2006-12-19 18:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do not isolate yourself and become a loner. You need people around you right now. Make friends. And to make friends be a friend first. Best of all, pray and ask the Lord to take away these negative feelings, He is our solace. Believe that with all your heart and you'll be free from your self-pity and depression.
2006-12-19 19:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by g2etch 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lots of people go through the same experience like yours, sometimes even worse. But you must know that what happens to you is inconsequential to how you react to it. You must choose to look at them as challenges to be conquered not as sources of depression. If you are familiar with the famous quotation that says, problems should be considered as stepping stones to success and not as sources of failures? This is exactly how you should react to your situation. Train yourself to look at it that way. It is difficult at first but with constant self determination and practise and positive thinking you can, I know personally of a student who had all the bad luck in his life, Father died when he was very young living him to be the breadwinner for his 4 siblings, mother was jobless, he was ostracised in the neighbourhood because they were living in a shanty, sometimes he comes to school walking because he had no money for fare and hungry... but do you know what he did? He looked at these as challenges and did the BEST he could in school (even in an empty stomach) and it paid off, he was the best in class and graduated. Now he is a successful professional and always recalls those days to encourage young people not to give up and to always look at the positive in any given situation. (the glass half full not half empty) If at first you fail to do it, keep trying, you have not failed as long as you keep trying. Good luck.
2006-12-19 19:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well know you are NOT alone and that one day you will see that we all make mistakes and we have to face the after affects of them and move on. Depending on your age your life is totally in your control. If you are depressed please go get help and that is a start...Good luck to you!
2006-12-19 19:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your lack of grammar makes me uninterested in answering your question, sorry.
..... things will get better with the passing of time.
2006-12-19 19:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋