some twenty months ago, i was faced with a decision and i made a terrible choice which is destroying not only my own life, but also the life of my parents and my family. this mistake which i made has spoiled my whole life and has left no option for me but to finish my life. the only way out of this quicksand is to somehow go back into my past and change my decision, to make the right choice, and this is the only way to save me and my family from destruction.
i know u might laugh at me, but i know that everything's possible. if anybody out there knows how to go back in time, PLEASE, i beg u to help me, please let me have one more chance at life, i really need to go back in time to july 2005.
PLEASE, ANYBODY, PLEASE HELP ME IF U CAN, PLEASE, IF ANYONE OUT THERE KNOWS HOW TO REVERSE TIME AND GO BACK INTO THE PAST, PLEASE TELL ME AND HELP ME AT GETTING ONE MORE CHANCE AT HAPPINESS. I REALLY NEED TO GO BACK TO THE TIME WHEN I STILL HASD THAT CHOICE IN MY HANDS... HELP ME, PLEASE!
2006-12-19 18:51:06 · 27 answers · asked by thehelper 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
please, this is not some dumb boyfriend problem or something emotional which i could solve by simply apologizing or thinking differently...i know all of you people mean well but many of u may be thinking this is a stupid chick problem..which it is not! it's a matter of life and death.
2006-12-22 18:15:07 · update #1
what the hell did u do?
2006-12-19 18:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by OLIVIA! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot go back in time, what is gone is gone. The thing that you can do is learn from your mistake, whatever it was, and go forward. Everyone makes a bad decision at least once in their life-that is a part of growing up. Learn from your mistake and try to make amends, or put it behind you and go forward. This is your option. Living in the past does not get a person no where. It might be hard to overcome whatever decision you made; but you can do it. There is a statement that everything happens for a reason. Maybe what ever mistake you made was aimed to get you on a different track. With time, maybe you will be able to forgive yourself. Good luck, honey.
2006-12-19 19:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by rosey 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry on this one. I don't have a good way to go back in time. I only know how to go forward in it.
Going forward doesn't mean that I always made the right decisions. Sometimes I made mistakes. When I did, I learned to live with them. Some weren't fun things to live with. Some I wish I could do over.
What I have learned that works is to appologize for my mistakes, and learn from them. People do respect someone who can rise from what they did and make positive things come out of it.
Admit your errors, to yourself and others. Appologize to those who need appologies. Repair what needs repairing. Live with what must be lived with, but go on and do your best.
Sometimes, it makes sense to change locations so you get a fresh start. Sometimes, you don't even have to move to do it.
Admittedly, I don't know what your error is, and a public forum probably isn't the best place for much precision in that. If there were more details, perhaps I could offer something a little more concrete.
2006-12-19 19:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by drslowpoke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding me , go back in time?? The only way to make things right between your family is by written them a letter and apologize for what ever you may have done wrong in the past.but honestly, what ever happened is NOW IN THE PAST and you shouldnt hold that against you or have any regrets.Leave the Past behind you ,your in the future.
If they dont talk to you or want no part of you then thats there choice.( ive been in that kind of situation) but the only thing you can do is lay it out for a bit, when ever there ready for communications then theyll eventually come around.
Yeah, it hurt to know you hurt your family and didnt mean to put them in a situation.But everything does happen for a reason.
2006-12-19 23:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Tami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of lessons as long as you learn from those lessons they will help you towards personal growth so when they do come around you handle them in a mature manner.
What will be "Will be" you can not change the past only learn from it.
Nothing is worth ending your life it just feels that way
You probably just need to grown yourself for clearer thinking to solve the problem
Go and sit in a park with the sun shinning from the top of your head through your body to the growth until you can think with a clear mind.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-12-19 22:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going forward is the only way. The choices you made then don't need to ruin your life NOW. Tomorrow is a new day and can start a new life. There isn't one person that hasn't made a wrong decision, thats because we're humans. We are SUPPOSED to mess up once in a while so we can learn something. And it sounds like you did.
2006-12-19 18:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by MeanKitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get the chance to make it right again in the future. Don't be so upset. We're never given more than we can handle. This is just a "life lesson" that NEED to learn so you won't make it in the future when it REALLY matters. Everything is going to be ok.
I felt just as bad as you do right now. I thought it was the end for myself but it wasn't. I'm in a much better place now. Hold on! You'll be ok and so will your Family. Love them. They love you.
2006-12-19 18:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question is totally bogus! You KNOW that it's impossible to go back in time. Well, just remember that something good ALWAYS comes out of every bad desicion. What are you in the mob or something? Did you strike a deal with some foreign terrorist? Is your family going to die? You didn't give the scenario so I have to assume that you are overexaggerating this situation.
2006-12-19 18:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot reverse time. Emotionally, one life may end and another one begin many times in your life.
Try to remember, when one door closes, another one opens. Life's trials and tribulations offer you a chance to correct things that haven't been working and to evolve spiritually and mentally. The best path is always going to be to try to become a better person.
2006-12-21 05:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a shot at making a fresh start any moment, coz we are humans with free will at our disposal. So instead of clinging to the past, think about how you can undo the damage today, and get on with your life. Your destiny is your own making.
And if I were you, I would cut my losses and start afresh right NOW.
~Princess.
2006-12-20 02:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what station the Art Bell show is on. He had a guest on once who was selling time machines and they claimed the thing worked. I'm serious. I loved that guys show, esp when people called in with true ghost stories.
2006-12-20 04:21:16 · answer #11 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋