What sexual orientation should I be? is it better to be gay or straight? being a straight girl hasnt worked?

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so far... HELP!

Answer 1

You have asked and answered your own question and what can one say.

Answer 2

Well as cliche as it sounds your sexual orientation should be decided by the way you feel personally, no one can tell u whats best to be. if ur attracted to girls then be gay... if ur attracted to boys then continue being straight... if u like both be bisexual. there honestly isn't a sexual orientation that u can classify as the "best" , everything has its downfalls. it all depends on you ...maybe try to go to new places and meet new people, you may just be around the wrong kinda guys

Answer 3

I know being straight isn't always easy, since there's not that many good-looking guys out there. Of course, there is the question: what's wrong with being bi? I have a feeling the reason you're asking the question is because you're monogamous and so you're trying to decide between a male partner and female partner (I think). Of course that would lead to the conclusion that you're bi and the question SHOULD be: Which gender should you date?

In that case, there's nothing wrong with dating women - women are soo beautiful. :) I definitely have a preference for women though I always feel that magnetic pull that society has that makes us want to date men so that we can have that "heterosexual priviledge". Which is why lesbians don't like bi women. But that shouldn't stop you from dating lesbians. Of course there are also many bi women out there, though they can be hard to find sometimes.

Personally I think it's better to be gay - women usually know what they want from each other, and I definitely prefer women. Anyway, it is your decision. Go for it! :)

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Answer 4

I guess that would all depend on what you are searching for. You should try it if you feel like it & then try it again to make sure you still like it. After that, why limit yourself if you don't want to. Nothing says you can't change your mind at any time in your life. Sometimes having NO sexual orientation helps you to sort things out in a way that is less confusing. You can abstain until you see someone you feel safe talking to.

Answer 5

Well somebody sounds like they're VERY open-minded. There's honestly bad apples on both sides of the "gender fence." Then again there's some great catches on both sides. I'd like to say give it a try, but probably the better advice would be to keep your eyes open, act upon opportunities, and maybe you'll find the right person eventually.

Answer 6

Nothing wrong to be a gay or straight or even bi, and nobody can tell it's better to be gay or straight, cuz its not the problem of which is more benefit. After all, we are all looking for someone we truly love no matter it's he or she.

Answer 7

Wrong question. Whether it has worked or not (so far) is not the proper issue. The relevant question is: do you feel a sexual attraction to males, or to females? If you wanted to snuggle up to someone in the middle of the night, would it be with a man or a woman?

Answer 8

What do you mean, being straight has not worked? Not attracted to guys? Or just a string of jerks make you angry with that gender? Neither one or the other is "better" per say. It's just about what makes YOU happy.

Answer 9

i think you dont have to be labeled by any orientation just follow your heart if you like and feel atractive to a man be with but if you also feel atractive to a girl so what just enjoy your self and be sure you are confortable

Answer 10

Well that doesn't mean if you become gay it will worked out for you. I will say remaining straight will certainly benefit you one day or the other

Answer 11

being bisexual is best-but if you want one over the other choose girls -you said IT yourself being a straight girl hasent worked