I am wondering if my boyfriend of 10 months is going to propose soon (I'm 22, he's 24). Lately, he has been very cautious financially. Usually, he spends quite a bit on our dates, and has recently been saying that certain places are too expensive (which is fine). His friend is about to propose to his gf. He told me this while I was driving us somewhere, and I said, "I knew it! I am very perceptive when it comes to pending proposals", and he replied, "Haha, oh, are you?" and I said yes, and I saw him smile out of the corner of my eye, and he mumbled something I didn't catch. The mother of his friend jokingly told him that he better be looking at rings for me, with a smile and a wink, and later told me that he & I made were "so cute together", and that she had a feeling he was thinking about proposing. My own mother told me on Sunday, "From what I have seen of you 2, he's definitely thinking about proposing in the near future." I don't want to get my hopes up...opinions?
2006-12-19 18:18:46 · 8 answers · asked by Maria V. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also, he has been doing the "we" thing a lot lately ("WE have a party to go to on the 31st", "WE need to try that resturant/see that movie, sometime", etc.).
2006-12-19 18:20:55 · update #1
SOUNDS LIKE YOU ALREADY GOT YOUR HOPES UP! GOOD~LUCK!!
2006-12-19 18:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be... But it could also be that you want him to ask and that you take every sign for it.
If you want to know more, you should have a talk with him about your couple and where the two of you think it's going.
Even if it's nice to have a proposal as a surprise, it's always a good thing to talk about your future together before. Be sure that you share the same values about important things, talk children and finances. It's good to make sure you're going the same way before you make an important choice.
Plus it will let him know that you are ready for it too.
Have a beautiful life with him.
2006-12-20 03:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Pyrene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly you didnt aspect out how lengthy you've been mutually...it extremely is continuously between the biggest elements. as well that, there are any such vast quantity of issues that would result this style of lifestyles determination. Are you both in a sturdy occupation spot and financially solid? yet another area of keep in ideas is that all of us, even couples that are 18 years previous "communicate' about the destiny....(its continuously thrilling wishing eventhough they don't look waiting). if you're severe then you actually 2 favor to have a severe verbal substitute about once you imagine you adult men will flow the subsequent step. You dont favor to ask him to point, you're merely asking "Whats next and at the same time as"? also I pronounced a large number of human beings pronounced the "nerves". at the same time as my hubby finally proposed we were mutually for 8 years and he develop into shaking at the same time as he requested me...(Like i'd have stated "no")
2016-11-27 21:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he proposes u or not depends on a lot of factors.but most likely he will.and the sure thing is he wants to bring to ur notice that he wishes to prose or he is attracted to u( to be technical).so if u wishes him to propose u,better u give positive signs to him and make him confidant so that he may overcome the fear of rejection.
go ahead sweety, enjo the bliss called love,if at all its all above infatuation
2006-12-19 18:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ajith E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds good marriage and all but it isn't. As soon as you get married your bf-husband will start to take you for grand ed.Forget about ever going out together.What use Tobe fun weekends turns into just another boring day.If you don't believe me ask anyone who is married.I no you think your marriage will be different but it won't. And you will get married and be happy for about 6 months if your lucky.Before you no it 10 years is gone and your husband is older fat and stopped looking and touching you.and did I forget to mention about the other women.
2006-12-19 19:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
to me, none of what you said sounds like hes going to propose. he could be thinking that he wants to get really serious but not married just yet
2006-12-19 18:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like `it is going to happen- shall I say congrats ahead of time- sound very serious= God bless you both and your future together-D
2006-12-19 18:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just wait and see. You don't want to spoil the surprise do you??
2006-12-19 18:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋