is just about the lowest thing a person could do. I mean that is really low. both the spouse and the adulterer should be ashamed.
2006-12-19 16:39:57 · 26 answers · asked by Big hands Big feet 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep, I agree. Soldier away fighting for their country and their partner is at home sleeping around. Not cool at all.
No respect for country or vows
2006-12-19 16:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Katie G 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that if your spouse it over seas and you cheat you should loose all rights as far as the millitary goes. These men and women are fighting for OUR country and their spouse's are having affairs (not all but some) should be ashamed!!!!
They should make some sort of websight for adultures of soldiers, Some public humiliation would be good.
I feel so sorry for those men and women that have to come home to a dishonest partner!!!
2006-12-20 00:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of it has to do with where the soldiers found their wife in the first place. There are a lot of women and/or men who latch on the military men and/or women just to get away from where they were at, so their initial marriage was just a ruse to get away from home or a bad situation. Not a good initial premises for a marriage in the first place. I seen most of the marriages in my military stint end in divorce.
2006-12-20 00:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Michael C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating of any kind is not right right. But under those circumstances it's bullshit! The spouse and the adulterer should try putting themselves into the husband's shoes! poor guy. . .
2006-12-20 00:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you stop and think if the spouse in having sex over seas to? It happens all the time.We think it is OK for a man to get some but God if his wife dose . You forget people have thing they need and if there spouse is not here they will find a way to get it.That is life.
2006-12-20 00:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by david o 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It happens a lot, especially in Thailand where prostitution is at high, where my fiance said that even his staff sgt's and gunnys will be doing this, sadly.
I have no doubt my fiance has been faithful to me while he was stationed in Japan and Iraq. Sadly, not a lot of spouses are.
2006-12-20 02:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is really low anytime it's done. Sometimes it is especially low.... the situation you commented on, when the spouse is sick, when the spouse is going through rough period in life...
2006-12-20 01:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is the lowest thing. In fact, that is my biggest "pet peeve" you could say - when people cheat on their significant others (especially when married!). I despise it so much, that I wish people went to prison for doing it. That's how low I think it is!
2006-12-20 00:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by newmum06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually both of them are committing adultery. If they are consenting adults, it is not illegal, just morally questionable, but they both just have to wear the consequences when the soldier returns.
2006-12-20 00:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Labsci 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! someone posted something like this earlier, very similiar to your question. Anyway, my answer is adultry is adultry. If your going to cheat, you might as well not be married.
2006-12-20 00:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋