so theres this guy that i have been friends with forever but we've always had a love-hate relationship and just recently we decided to be nice to each other and it was going great until we had a christmas party at church and our youth pastor gave us all a candy cane ornament..........the guy was holding his candy cane when i started tickling him and he dropped it and it broke........i figured we would be alright but apparently we arent bcuz i asked all my friends to send me a comment saying wat ther memory was with me and he said the candy cane inciddent was our memory then he proceeded to tell that he hated me and not to talk to him or write him back i am devasted what should i do?
2006-12-19 16:35:46 · 19 answers · asked by jamie_lynn_1109 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
by the way im fifteen
2006-12-19 16:43:43 · update #1
this happened a week ago and i keep apologizing but he's seriously mad he gets mad pretty easy
2006-12-19 16:48:13 · update #2
You are being too emotional over this. The guy will probably forget about it by tomorrow. (or else make a joke of it)
If he doesn't then forget about him. Make some other friends who are not rude and immature.
2006-12-19 16:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by kristin c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are still in junior high. He will get over it and you will too. Buy him a candy cane to make up if you need to do anything. If you are mixed together as in church just be nice and eventually he will probably melt the ice around him. It is life and you will win some and lose some. There are so many people to meet and have great releationships with. Let it go.........
2006-12-20 00:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mudder/ Gi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will put it like this. In a relationship, the approach has to be a two way process and the two have to consider all the aspects. Your narration suggests it is you who is desperate to normalise the relations. As a matter of fact the other side is indifferent altogether and all the way. The relationship can not survive even if you feel sorry for the cabdy incident. Since that fellow does not seem to be desirous.
I would suggest give it a final try and therefrom move off if things do not smoothen.
2006-12-20 00:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bawana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, I can see that you are upset about this but it's only a candy cane. If he hates you cause he dropped his candy cane he must be 10 years old.
Don't worry about it, he isn't worth even thinking about. Move on
2006-12-20 00:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by Karce 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, boys act like nuts when they don't know how to handle the emotions they feel towards a girl. If this occured at a party in your church, then maybe you should speak with your youth pastor about the remarks he made to you. These things will come and go. He's just flexing his young male muscles and you're his scapegoat right now. Pray about it and don't stress.
2006-12-20 00:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make him a new one with two candy cane's.... telling him that your so sorry that you hurt his feeling and would not do something like that on purpose and just hope that he is a true friend.....
Sounds like he really likes you, dont take boy's to seriously. Sometimes they are just looking for a reaction.
Good luck!
2006-12-20 00:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve been friends forever and hes doesnt want to talk ever again over a candy cane ornament? hes really immature for that but if you really want to fix this give him yours and say your sorry. good luck
2006-12-20 00:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe things wouldn't be so bad if you had offered him your candy cane ornament. Don't worry about it...conflict was inevitable, small potatoes. Move on....
2006-12-20 00:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very immature, why dont you just give him Your candy cane?
2006-12-20 00:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by Enviro-Mentally Retarded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's mad over a piece of candy - he's not worth it. Seriously, who gets mad over something so silly?
I'm sure he'll be fine in a few days.
2006-12-20 00:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by karespromise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋