I am at my job today and my boss was sitting in his office at his desk looking at me. Even a few minutes I got up to go back to my desk and he just would not stop looking at me. This is something new with him. I have been at my new job for 7 months I have never seen him do this. His face was almost like a blank stair when he looked at me and he was really nice to me. He is married by the way and has children and I am a very productive person and very proffesional. So, what was the staring all about? AND I WAS WEARING SCRUBS SO I AM COVERD UP.
2006-12-19 16:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by Imyourfantasy4u 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sometimes we men just switch off and stare into space or, at whatever happens to be close at hand. Trust me, men seek solace with our own thoughts, and on occasions we just go onto auto-pilot (just ask a married woman about Men's 'silences').
Don't get me wrong IF he really is giving You a good looking over then don't hesitate to pull Him up over His behavior. Do it Yourself, don't involve others because You could be wrong and it would not do to make a scene.
Good luck, and have a Merry Christmas!
2006-12-19 16:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over yourself. More than likely, and I'm a man so I know, he is trying to figure out how much beer is in the fridge at home and the blank "stair" is actually a blank stare and you just happen to be passing through it.
Either that or he is trying to figure out a way to get you naked in the Xerox room. You never can tell, really...
2006-12-20 00:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Science Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell someone else, or more than one, you trust who is NOT under his authority about this. Then tell him that his staring at you makes you uncomfortable. Hopefully, that will wake him up and adjust his behavior, because for a person in authority over you to carry on that way is sexual harrassment.
If that doesn't change things, or if it gets worse or you experience retribution, you need to bring in that trustworthy person you confided in and file a sexual harassment complaint.
2006-12-20 00:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Skeff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men engage their imagination in many ways. Perhaps you remind him of his wife years ago. Or perhaps hes wondering what life would be like single. We generally do this but not being disrespectful.
2006-12-20 00:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by TROLL BOY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he enjoys looking at the female body if he didn't he would not be married or have kids. All men can't be gay it' s nature at work.
2006-12-20 00:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by William T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore. just be the same person that you were. wierd guy. yet, if your boss acts in a way that you really can't stand anymore, tell him.
2006-12-20 00:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They get distracted by pretty shiny things and cannot help themselves. As long as he doesn't drool, just try to ignore it.
2006-12-20 00:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by BellyRubz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love your hair
2006-12-20 00:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt hurt to eat with your eyes
2006-12-20 00:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by mad skills 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who fukking knows? Go ask him.
2006-12-20 00:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by Shakalaka 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋