i realised that i already forgot those hurts from others but those whom i hurt before are always on my mind...
2006-12-19 16:14:24 · 22 answers · asked by chloe 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, I really remember one. He was a wonderful man. He would have done anything for me... only at the time I was young and didn't want anything done for me. I found it to have been a bit smothering. So, when he told me he loved me, I just sat quietly then changed the subject. A week later, I let him "catch" me with another guy in a theater. Broke his heart so badly... you know, I feel so very bad for this, as when I grew up some, I would have given my left arm for someone who would've treated me like that. Makes me feel like such a heel. I ran into him years later, when our lives crossed paths. We both had taken the insurance agent route and I applied and interviewed somewhere he worked. I looked at him and he looked so grown up and handsome... I wanted to tell him that I was sorry, but the look on his face said it all... it STILL hurt him to think about it. I just put my eyes on the floor and couldn't even look him in the eyes again. I knew then that I had been such a little jerk when I was young. I wish I could tell him I am sorry... not for a second chance, but because I feel it is the right thing to do. I hope he is well, as I now live 3 states away from him. And yes, he does often cross my mind.
Thanks for the memory, think I will go beat myself to a pulp now, lol. Jk. Really, I hope he reads this, but hey what are the chances?
2006-12-19 16:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not always. I only remember when things are clearer and then I realized how much I hurt them. But then I remember that somewhere in time I was also hurt by the same person, so I don't feel that bad. How many people have hurt you, intentionally or not intentionally? When you take stock of your mistakes, don't forget what made you did it and you will realize that it was never you and you alone who made those mistakes. You only live once, why waste it in regrets?
2006-12-20 12:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesss I do remember and I will never ever forget
I rarely hurt people ,but this one deserved to be hurt because he hurt me more than you think!
I don't feel regretted at all!
2006-12-20 00:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am the opposite. I don't remember those I've hurt, but remember being hurt.
2006-12-20 04:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by jipp 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I feel horrible but I dont even know where that person is and if I did see her, times are different I think she is past it now. She was a good person.
2006-12-20 00:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by DJ C 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yeah, I lied to one of my boyfriends when I broke up with him cuz I didn't want him to know the real reason I was breaking up with him and I still feel bad about lying to him even though he was abusive and treated me horribly...it makes me feel like I lowered myself and maybe it would have helped him to be a better person if I had told him...
2006-12-20 00:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles the Kitty 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
All the time.
I remember them and i feel awful.
But a few weeks ago, i decided to just tell them exactly how i felt and apologized...
I feel better now.
2006-12-20 00:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by OlletsoC 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yep, I feel guilty for the times I hurt people, hopefully this "guilt" causes us to do better in the future.
2006-12-20 00:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by jennycf2 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but i have moved on. I can't cry over spilled milk...especially 10 years later.
2006-12-20 00:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by ÐIESEŁ ÐUB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I think about it, I feel sad and wish I could change the past.
2006-12-20 00:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋