I saw one girl in my class. She is a white girl but I am Chinese. Is it possible that we have a normal family with her? Is her religion against my culture? I just want to fall in love with her.
Please help me what should I do? I can not even talk normally to her.
2006-12-19 16:02:07 · 3 answers · asked by kgs s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Oh hell, just tell her you like her and would like to spend some time with her. Try to settle on something that you have in common, both would enjoy and that will give you both a chance to get to know each other and do some fun stuff together.
NOT a movie - what a cop-out! You really can't talk or make eye contact there, it is so uncomfortable and impersonal and puts you in such a "do I put my arm around her or not?" type no-win situation.
Look - the worst that can happen is that she says no. If you never ask, you'll never know. And, it means nothing about you. You are being honest and earnest. If she says no, it means 1. She is being honest and earnest and really doesn't click with you or 2. She is not being honest and is a self-absorbed jerk and you are better off without her. You will probably know which one if you are honest with yourself and trust yourself.
If that happens, just move on and don't assume that, just because she doesn't want to hang with you, no one will.
2006-12-19 16:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Skeff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. well first of all you have to talk to her first, befor you start planning out a family with her.
talk to your parents on how they would feel about you dateing a white girl first, maybe get an idea of how there reaction would be see if they will suport you. in the idea of not being with somoene of the same culture, its not that big of a deal but to some familys it is.. and its important to know what your geting into.
her religion maybe against your beliefs, she may not even follow a sertian religion so it may not be a factor. there is no harm in dateing somoene.. you find this things out with time..
you dont love her though sweety.. not yet.. you might want to but give it time. but start with hi.
2006-12-20 00:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a person. She is a person. You are not beneath her. She is not beneath you. Gather up your courage and say "Hi!" to her.
All you can do is hold the hope in your heart that she has no racist tendencies. Luckily it seems like that is slowly fading from all societies, and she may even be as struck by you as you are by her.
Good luck!
2006-12-20 00:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋