ok im 16 goin 2 be 17 in april and i think im pregnet but i scared 2 tell my family. what should i do?

Answer 1

tell them the sooner the better its something they will find out anyhow might as well get it over with

Answer 2

Well, I had a friend who got pregnant when she was 17 and didn't tell her family until she was 6 months along...disastrous! Then there was another who told her parents the second she got a positive test....and then she got her period two days later and it turned out she wasn't pregnant at all, so basically she went through this whole embarassing talk and got in huge trouble for no reason.

My recommendation of what I'd do if I were you is take a home pregnancy test (hopefully with the support of your boyfriend or at least an awesome friend)...if it's negative, give it a week or so (make sure you're at least late for your period) then test again. If you're still late OR if you get a positive result, I'd recommend going to your local health department first...these are low- or no-cost facilities that can test for pregnancy and get you hooked up with pregnancy insurance and care if you do happen to be expecting...plus, they can prescribe birth control pills and give you condoms if you're not!

The bottom line is, if you are pregnant, you have to tell your family...they will love you no matter what, and the most important thing is getting you AND this child the most care, love, and support possible. But to avoid an unneccessary uncomfortable situation, get tested both by yourself and the pros before jumping into the dreaded convo.

Answer 3

My little sister just had a baby at 17 and he's so adorable. My parents and my other siblings all love him dearly. When i first found out that she was pregnant i was really worried and disappointed. I'm pro choice and i thought she should definitely have an abortion. My mother is the opposite and put a lot of pressure on her to have the baby. In the end it was her own decision.

At the time my mum said something that i think was pretty profound. she said "not everyone is built like you. not everyone has the same aspirations and hopes for a career as you. Some women just want to be mothers". And she's right. You just have to chose for yourself.

Having the baby will make you grow up really quickly and it will be hard work and you'll miss out on a lot of things other girls your age will experience, BUT a new life might be important enough for you to give up these things. My nephew is a joy (but far to young to live vicariously through yet, hopefully my sister wont make that mistake)

Answer 4

There is nothing worse than hiding this from your family. I believe that in order to get the help and support you need so that you can overcome this issue and move on you must confront it head-on. Telling your family may be a very difficult thing, but one of the best decisions you'll make. Remember that reagrdless of what happens your family loves you unconditionally and have your best interest at heart.
Fear not for the Jesus the Lord almighty will see you through these trying times.

Answer 5

Firstly i think that you should get a pregnancy test done and make sure whether you are or not. Secondly if you are talk to your parents about the situation and together with the baby father you can come up together with a solution as how best to deal with the situation. Thirdly if you are not then let this be a wake up call to having unprotected sex and the consequences of it. Because you are just a child yourself. you are in no position to be thinking of having a baby in your life right now. You are at a time that you should be enjoying life. Something that my mom always say books and boys don't mix, take your education because there is going to be plenty of time for boys later on

Answer 6

Now is the time to start being open with your parents - 5 months from now they will know anyways.
First you pray for God to give them a soft heart towards you as you talk to them
Second you decide what is important to tell them about your pregnancy
Third try not to get in to the nitty gritty- just keep the important factors on the table
Fourth get ready for your life to change becuz being a mom is hard work- you can do it!!

Get some good books on young mothering and baby needs-
"The Baby Book" by Doctors William and Martha Sears is wonderful!

Please visit http://www.yourchildrennaturally.com for helpful info

Answer 7

honestly, coming from someone around your age, im 19, who has a friend that just went through the same thing, id say find out first. i dont mean an at home pregnacy test, you need to go to your obgyn if you have one, or planned parenthood (they do these things for little or no cost) to have a real test done. from there, talk to whoever you go to, to find out strategies about telling family and friends. usually planned parenthood has classes, lectures, and counseling available for teens and although it may seem like a drag, it will really help you throughout your pregnacy! good luck!

Answer 8

I've been in your shoes and I know that it's not easy to tell your family about these things. Just break the ice..don't wait for the perfect moment cuz there will never be on. just remember to be honest and give them some time to let it sink into their minds you've had you time. They may get angry or upset but as soon as those emotions are over..there's usually happier ones that follow

Answer 9

The only thing you can do is tell your family. but yeah, wait until you're sure first. I was 17 when I got pregnant and I told my dad through an email. My mom is very supportive though. Congrats and good luck!

Answer 10

Find out if your pregnant first and then tell your family immediately. I know it is not going to be easy and I pray you have a family who will support you. If you were my daughter I would be upset..any mother would. But a mother will still love you. Honesty is always the best policy!!! Good Luck.

Answer 11

if you are not sure then find out there are many pregnacy resorce centers in many areas and schools nurse can give you a test, at least they could when I went to school but I guess thing could have changed. once you find out no matter what the result is you need to talk to your family because it is important to understand each other and not let a secret drive you apart