not wanting to talk to this guy from today on? I have confronted this guy (who have told me he likes me, but I have put him off in the past) today about how my feeling towards him has changed. I found out he starts seeing another girl two weeks after he told me how much he loves me.
I have told him I need some times, but he has moved on I guess and that he blames it all on me for being indecisive. But we have only know each other for a couple of months and that I need more time to make sure we mean to be together. I don't want to date around. I want a mature relationship. Now I am mad and very upset since he has put it all on me. He said I didn't care about him back then and all, which I know and he knows I like him.I'm not ready to be his friend.
Anyway, I am very disappointed and heart broken by our conversation. We work together and I haven't said one word to him since your last talk early today. Am I being childish here? I mean.....the sad feelings are all over me and I do
2006-12-19
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i think you didnt expect him to see another girl that fast just when you were going to believe him and make your last decision .
You have the right to be upset but ignoring him would make him think that you care alot for him which is true ..you'd better act a little normal around him because he's not worthy ..if I were you ,I wouldnt let him to know that I was hurt just to keep up my dignity.
2006-12-19 15:47:40
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answered by Mysterious 6
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If a woman tells me she is not interested, I take her at her word and am gone. I do not like game players and people that are unable to make simple decisions. He seems the same.
I told a woman I loved her (in so many words) and got no response. It nearly killed me, but I moved on. Never saw her again. Carla Fraga.
2006-12-19 15:47:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Wow, same thing happened to me with my b/f! I'm still with him now, several years later. What I ended up doing was having a talk with him. I told him that I did like him and I did want to go out with him after all. I was just scared off because all of the sudden he was following me around like a lost puppy saying "I love you" and it was waaay too soon for me. I told him that I just didn't realize it until he tried to move on, without me. We ended up dating and it become really serious really soon so I panicked again, but I just stayed with him because I was afraid I would lose him. Now I'm really happy I did! I see now that I just had a fear of serious commitment for some reason, but I got over it by doing that.
2006-12-19 15:47:44
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answered by Heather-Nicolle 3
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#1 it isn't love if it is over in two weeks.
#2 it isn't all that serious, tons of fish in the sea
#3 when you tell someone you need time, you take the chance of them not giving it to you. Never say it unless you mean it.
#4 I have a drinking problem.
2006-12-19 15:51:42
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answered by Anonymous
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I think it just was not meant to happen between you two. If you had really been in to him you would not of needed time to think it over. On the flip side if his feelings were strong he would have waited. I think it would only be childish if he spoke to you and you ignored him.
2006-12-19 15:52:28
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answered by rapunzelcrazy 2
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Many guys throw arougn the I love you word because most women wnat to hear it especially if they have feeling for someone..I do not think you are being a B..but show him your strong and still talk to him...like a coworker...hang in there..for life has a lot of heart break to go around...
2006-12-19 15:45:02
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answered by LostInTheCrowd 2
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Move on you were never interested in him
You just got mad because he wised up and moved on to someone who does want him.
The chase is over and you lost. Yes your being childish
2006-12-19 16:01:46
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answered by Anonymous
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you didn't do anything wrong. And of course he blames you, that is a common human trait... to want to be right and to want others to be wrong... You have to do what is best for you girl. If you don't want to see him, then don't. Why bring stress into your happy life? You only live once
2006-12-19 15:45:10
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answered by Anonymous
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those are animal breeding words, a sire is a male canines, chosen via the breeder for it quite is many fantastic traits to be breed with the *****, a woman canines chosen for her many fantastic traits besides.
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answered by juart 4
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Your only asking because you are a ****** and you love to be told that you are
2006-12-19 15:44:15
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answered by Anonymous
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