hey people i seriously need some advice.
well, at skool, i have this bff of mine and we were hella close!! then there were these other group of girls that were hating on me and they were spreading rumors about me saying that i was talking crap about everyone, and everyone was hating me!!! and those girls were trying to get the whole skool against me!! AND IT WORKED!! now my bff even left me!! i was crying so badly!!!!! i dont even talk about anybody, and i dont kno why people think i am talking about them! i guess because those girls are more people than me, and people would rather believe them. i wanna change skools...should i ?
2006-12-19 15:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-12-19 15:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Realize that this petty drama is useless crap that does nothing but detract from what is really important- your education.
2. Change schools.
3. Enroll in a basic English/ grammar class.
4. Lock yourself in a room until you stop spelling school "skool."
5. Enroll in increasingly more challenging classes. Revel in the fact that this move to a new school has given you the opportunity to focus on your work and not your "bff."
6. Get really smart.
7. If you're feeling vindictive, pay a visit to all your former classmates in a few years and show off your newly acquired and impressive range of knowledge. This will include no longer using the word "hella" and understanding of the entire plot of "In Search of Lost Time."
8. Laugh.
2006-12-19 23:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's easy to believe the worst of someone.
But what you are describing is classified as bullying. Talk to a school councillor asap. It's free and confidential. It is very important to get help. At the very least, you might stop them from doing this to someone else.
And once you stand up to bullying, it takes their power away.
The same thing happened to me, but I was on the other end. I made a sarcastic remark about a classmate that I liked, some girl overheard it, then told the whole school. I wound up in the counselling office with this girl who I made the comment about, and she was so upset she was almost crying. Parents almost got involved. I apologized, and I hadn't intended to marr her reputation. And I really did feel bad, because she was a nice person.
We made up, and I totally laid off the gossip. It was hard to get through, but once it was over, things got so much better.
2006-12-20 00:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST, go to the principals and seriously ask to use the auditorium. Leave notes to the most important people and have them invite their friends there and they wont know why they're there til you take the stage. Stand on stage and seriously prove your point. If you are sincere and very honest about it, they'll forgive you and odds are like you more for being so forward and open and honest about it and respect you for taking a stand. I know what HS is like, you'll do good. :-)
2006-12-19 23:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by sally b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG....this exact same thing happened to my BFF, except i didn't leave her. YOU should def not change schools because that will just mean that the mean girls won. You need to just tell the truth and your true friends will come back. If they were all fake friends then you don't need them anyways, and you should just try to meet real people.
2006-12-19 23:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you change schools your giving in. you should stand up for yourself. plus when you change schools you have to go through all that drama of being the new person, and trust me that sucks more than a couple of dumb rumors. i knw its hard but stick it out.
oh yeah and about your bff. if she were really your friend she wouldnt have believed anything those girls were sayin. srry but thats the honest to goodness truth.
2006-12-19 23:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlildreamer06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run away from your problems. Try to confront them. If nothing works and you get harassed and if your parents agree it's for the best, then change schools. Good luck most of us know what it's like to deal with something similar.
2006-12-19 23:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Next week someone else will get the abuse. School kids are stupid. They always need to make someone feel inferior. The more they can see it bugs you the more they will do it. Just ignore them. It will be someone else next week.
2006-12-19 23:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never run away from your problems because they will seriously haunt you don't listen to the bs that people talk about you
2006-12-19 23:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you move schools, the mean kids win. I'd just stick it out. Don't give into them!!
2006-12-19 23:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by imcool_likeyou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey try ENGLISH class
2006-12-19 23:23:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋