IM going crazy , MY wife is 7 months preg and Is very moody ,We have not had sex in 6 month and I am going to lose it We have 3 other kids and im doing almost everything on top of that I have been in pain For months with two herniated disc in my back that are going to lead to surgery ANy tips on getting through this very difficult time
2006-12-19 14:47:37 · 6 answers · asked by tigerb29209 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You have to realize the amount of pressure you're under and deal with one thing at a time. I know this is unfair to you, but you cannot blame your wife for being moody, pregnancy is not easy but you can nicely tell her that she's projecting her emotions on you and try to come her down instead of fighting with her when she does get this way.
As for the sex, a 7 month pregnant woman does NOT feel sexy. If you want it, you have to work for it...you have to MAKE her feel like she's sexy.
As far as your back pain, I'm sorry, there's no pain more excrutiating than that. Just try to not stress out so much, it definately does not help and absolutely keep away from any really really hard work. Pay a teenager to shovel the driveway this year.
Hope everthing works out.
2006-12-19 14:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
God Bless You! When my Mother passed away I was getting a divorce, then my son went off to college, I was selling my house I thought the same thing. I wanted to go in a closet and have a nervous break down. I did and no I didn't. I take it you are taking pain medication for your back right? Well that makes you a little jumpy so you might need a tranquilizer until this all settles back down. My tranquilizer is good, strong Prayer. I asked God to take some of the strain and pressure from me so I could function and take care of the family problems. I would lie quietly with my eyes closed and pray very hard. In a amazingly short time God did relieve my tensions and HE started solving my problems, I know this sounds hoaky to a lot of people but I was nor am I now able to handle my problems, there to intense, but God can. Just trust me on this. There seems to come a very calm feeling and then a very pleasant sense of well being after prayer and I am not a fanatical person. So I am going to pray for you and your entire family, your wife must be going thru tremendous difficulty also so, move over I'm starten to pray. Be Strong! There's a lot of people relying on you.
2006-12-19 15:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feed her cranberries. Some 'non-invasive' sex options are still available. Manual or oral, ok its not the same. Try to get your pain meds increased , this will remove some of the stress. While you are in for the back surgery, get a vasectomy, and use condoms before then. And if the kids are old enough give them jobs to help around the home. if something goes wrong mom will yell at them and not you. 6 months, Hah! Thats a blink of the eye.
2006-12-19 15:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by vaughndhume 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PRAY ~ for Help and for your wife. Just tell her you need help! Does she know how much pain you are in? Sometimes you have to really tell us how you are feeling because we think yall are so strong!
2006-12-19 14:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by beachladyjenn 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
tell yr family yr a raging alcoholic and rehab called!!!!!!
2006-12-19 14:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by TAHOE GUY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
turn to god.
2006-12-19 15:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by vintageheartbreak 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋