what do guys admire about a girl???

Question

....and pleeeasse dont say boobs, butt, legs, attractivness or anything of a physical nature k, ta *-*

Answer 1

Here is the definitive list:

1. That she doesn't try to change me.
2. That she doesn't try to correct me.
3. That she accepts me as I am.
4. That she offers help or advice only when I ask for it.
5. That she allows me to be alone when I am overwhelmed and not have to talk.
6. That she shows me she needs me.
7. That she shows me she trusts me.
8. That she shows me she appreciates me.
9. That she tries to understand me.
10. That she expresses her admiration for me.
11. That she shows approval of me.
12. That she encourages me.
13. That she loves what I do for her.
14. That she never argues with me.
15. That she only communicates in a loving and accepting manner.
16. That she doesn't fight.
17. That she doesn't run away when we face problems but talks them out.
18. That she doesn't pretend everything is ok when it isnt and stuff her feelings.
19. That she doesn't just give in and sacrifice all the time to make peace and then becomes unhappy later, but expresses her needs, interests and concerns in a loving manner sh we can both be happy.
20. That she can maturely discuss the pros and cons of our issues, our differing views, and conflicting feelings without going beserk.
21. That she is accepting and cool when she asks for my support and I am not able to give it.
22. That she writes me letters expressing her real feelings (all of them) from time to time so that I can know what is going on inside of her and respond or just understand.

There you have 22 non-physical things to admire in an emotionally mature girl.

Here are some more:

1. Beauty (skin, hair, nails, clothing, accessories)
2. Wealth (the more the better)
3. Strength/Influence
4. Intelligence
5. Detachment
6. Fame

Those are the externals.

Internals:

1. Her thoughts (she is thinking of you)
2. Her feelings (she is in love with you)
3. Her desires (she wants you)
4. Her waking moments are absorbed in you
5. Her sleep time she dreams of you
6. She considers herself yours "I am yours"
7. She considers you her's "You are mine"

Relatives:

Her name invokes images of passion.
Her personal qualities are sublime and sweet.
She performs amazing activities.
She surrounds herself with beautiful friends like her.
She has the latest and hottest props (mobile, gadget, etc)
She is from a wealthy notable family.
Has a high degree of education.

(A lot falls under qualities, but no time to enumerate)

Within this general range of qualifications there will be various types of feelings, and then there are also different types of men. Some prefer one over the other. So there is no specific thing you can say generally aside from the above.

Yet, some men will be attracted to poor girls and not rich. Some ignorant girls and not learned. There is no absolute. But these are the basics.

The final answer is that all girls are potentially sexy, it just takes the right guy to come along and notice and appreciate her.

There is a guy that is going to appreciate you the way you are, but will you similarly appreciate him? Sometimes, not always.

Focus on being chaste and faithful to your husband because that is one vitue that never wears out with time like most of these others and it is generally the most valued by men and women alike.

10 points please :)

Answer 2

I like that she still sleeps with me after 20 years of marriage.
Sorry, is that physical?

And that she hasn't deliberately poisoned my food.

Answer 3

Sense of humor, charm, a good job, smart, some guys like a *****, but I don't.

Answer 4

Depends on the guy, I'd ask him

Answer 5

Honesty and non-judgementalness.

Answer 6

smile & loving hearts

Answer 7

their ability to love us even though we sometimes are idiots