It was a normal day in school.When I went to lunch it was all okay.But them someone yelled '' eww, she gots a bugar in her nose. Everybody was laughing at me. My friend was with me and she was staring to tell everyone, even my teacher. I started to cry because everyone was making me nerves. I didn't cry infront of my teacher. I was only with some classmates. Now kids are making fun of me, well my friend is telling other kids. How can I ever show my face again in school. I feel so emmbarresed and sad.Please Help!
2006-12-19 14:25:45 · 8 answers · asked by Xxkekkei GenkaixX 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is a hard situation to face, and it may seem as if it's the worse thing that could have happen to you, and I understand how you must feel. Do you have parents or any older person that you can talk to, and explain to them, what happened and how you feel? Maybe they have suggestions that may help. It may be possible to take a couple of days off and go back later in the week. Another suggestions is to face the situation head on and when and if someone say's anything to you, have answers that defuse the situation rather than let them know how much it bothers you, .... you could just say... when someone approaches you or reminds you about the incident, or laughs at your embarassment ...You could say something like: "C'mon is that the best you got? .. Anybody else want to talk about yesterday's news? Get over it already! Look, when you have something to say to me, worth hearing, and even almost intelligent, please let me know."
Say it with confidence and with attitude and walk away, shaking your head. Carry on with your day and your life, don't give anyone the satisfaction of stopping you from living your life. Please know these are only suggestions, think about what you feel you need to do. Also praying about problems and situations helps, take care.
2006-12-19 14:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by dothan1004 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, I am so sorry that happened, but, like fashions, today it's the biggest thing, tomorrow it will be "so yesterday". Like one answerer said, if you act like it was no big deal no one else will either. It's true. Kids/people love to get a rise out of others. That means getting them upset or cause drama. Let them laugh, you and they will get over it, and life will resume normal. When I was in school, I was in gym and we had swimming. I came up from doing the side stroke and my top of my whole piece had been drug down where both of my tatas were hanging out. I just pulled it up and went on like nothing happened. The jokes were over in less than a minute. No one bashed me in the lockers,except one girl, but I came back with a snippy comeback something like "It's only because your flat chested and wish you had them" or something to that effect. And then nothing was ever said again. As long as they know it upsets you in some way, it will be a long running joke. If you ignore them then it will die down in a day or two. If you stay home for a couple of days to gather your pride back it may be worse and everyone will know why. Just show back up and act as if nothing happened. If someone makes a snide remark just say "Were you dreaming? I don't remember that" or just ignore them. It works better than running and hiding. Good luck darling and be strong. Just remember, when you graduate there is a 75% you will never associate with most of your class mates again. There is a 90% chance you will only associate with maybe 5 to 10 people you graduated with after 3 yrs. There is a 98% chance that within 5 to 8 yrs, you will still only associate with 5 or less people you went to highschool with. I have not seen anyone I graduated with since I was 24 yrs old and have only stayed in contact with one friend in 25 yrs since.
2016-05-22 22:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. No one has ever died from embarrassment.
If you make a huge deal out of it and continue to act as though it were one, then people will continue to use it as a way to get to you. Even if you feel lousy, laugh it off when people tease you. Or make some rude remark like "At least I could get rid of my bugar, but you're stuck with your face." But, laugh as you're saying it like you think the whole thing a big joke.
Your classmates will lose interest quickly. And believe me, you will have far more humiliating experiences in your lifetime and you'll learn to roll with those too.
2006-12-19 14:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The absolute best thing to do if something like that happens again, is to laugh at yourself too.....don't take yourself so seriously....Everyone get's bugars in their noses & passes gass and a million other embarrassing things that happen....As far as going back to school....do it w/ your head held high...you are fine, and chances are the kids are more involved w/ what is going on w/ themselves than w/ remembering about your nose.....You are not alone in feeling embarrassed.....but feel it and then move on....you can do it....and in a month you won't even remember it happened....on to the next embarrassing moment....it' all part of being a human being :)
2006-12-19 14:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just laugh it off, it's not embarassing if you don't let it bother you. If anyone says anything to you, just snap at them some comeback or act like your going to hit them people always back down when they know people are serious about being violent. I got depantsed a while ago in school and it really bothered me until I went up to the girl who was telling everyone and almost punched her. She never said a damn thing again. And those friends that are doing that aren't real friends if they know how serious you are about this and continue to hurt you, just use your words and if you really need to your hands.
2006-12-19 14:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by curiosityreincarnated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,you need not to worry about it . Face your fears and go to school. If some one mentions it just tell them how how feel . But don't get in trouble
2006-12-19 14:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first shut ur friend up its just guna last longer if shes spreasing it. and then its guna die in a couple of weeks until then just play it kool. like if somthing happens to me i say i was high.... then agian i probly was but dont worry it wont last long. but u should really stop that friend of urs.
2006-12-19 14:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by Reaper G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about them because i'm sure it was'nt that funny. you should'nt hide from your problems because all it does is come right back to you.
2006-12-19 14:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋