when is a merrage over?
2006-12-19 14:20:34 · 26 answers · asked by Ben jamin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
believe me you will know
2006-12-19 14:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can end a marriage for any reason you wish, but I imagine that you loved your spouse at one point, I mean you got married. Generally, you are better off trying to work things out if you can. The rewards for are numerous. My marrage had a few problems on and off. Nothing major, but I have truely come to love my wife. I could have left her, and thought about it on and off during the first few years of our marrage, but I'm glad that I choose to work things out.
I think that there are indeed some good reasons to leave. They are:
1. Your spouse is physically harming you. Hitting, stabbing, poisoning etc..
2. Your spouse is having sex with someone else.
3. Your spouse has a drug/substance problem and is not dealing with it.
Please, if your spouse is not doing these things, get some help. Try to work things out. You will grow in the process.
Good luck.
2006-12-19 22:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bernard B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well seeing you have a spelling issue it should have never started.Seriously when you are unhappy and you see no hope for recovery you are arguing everyday you don't care when respect leaves then you are wasting your time it time to go. A FIRST THOUGHT OR ACTING ON GETTING PHYSICAL HITTING SLAPPING OR EVEN PUSHING GOTTA GO Loss of interest in the other person or the other person has a loss of interest in you
2006-12-19 22:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by sun4u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is a devorce?
What is a merrage?
2006-12-19 22:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off you have to mature enough to know what a good marraige is about.
It's not about sitting round looking for things to be discontent over.
It's about work to make what you have work out for the best for both of you.
Marraige is give and take. So get busy trying to enhance his life and see if he returns this to you. If he doesn't, then maybe you find counseling and choose what is best for you.
2006-12-19 22:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My personal opinion is that divorce is never a good idea. I've experianced divorce and its hard on everyone, it wasn't a good idea. There are ways to solve the problems. Unless he's being unfaithful then you should try to fix the problems first.
2006-12-19 22:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kid Jt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you look at that person and feel nothing. And you question why you are there or where your relationship is going. And your conversation isn't the same. Those are just a few hints
2006-12-19 22:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the marriage is over when you can't seem to stand anything about your spouse. Everything he/she does makes you mad. When you can't stand to be around them any longer or when they touch you and you cringe. I can't be sure if this is what's going on in your marriage, but all of these things did it for me. I knew it was time to call it quits.
2006-12-19 23:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Itsy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you can ask yourself whether or not your better off with the person or better off without them. I am divorced and that's what I had to ask myself. I was better off being divorced than staying with a man who abused me.
2006-12-19 22:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will know when you start fighting a lot, when you don't want to see your wife/husband anymore, when you get very distant and annoyed by them, & when you try to work things out and you cant solve your problems anymore.
2006-12-19 22:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by worried 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you don't feel love for them anymore, and if you are in love, you will know it. Also, look into some spellcheck, man.
2006-12-19 22:29:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋