2006-12-19 13:20:45 · 18 answers · asked by TheMagicWand 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Please note that he does not know how to speak yet. He uses yelling and screaming to communicate at this stage.
2006-12-19 13:33:55 · update #1
When my middle child behaved like this I thought I was going to go nuts. What really worked for me was some advice I got from her grandmother. Let him scream as long as he thinks he needs to. Get down to his level, look him in the eye and tell him that he doesn't get anything until he stops screaming. He does understand what you say, he may not be able to say much himself, but he does understand. After he stops screaming (he will stop screaming even if it doesn't seem like it) give him a second to calm down and then ask if he would like ......(what he was screaming for)? If he starts screaming again, put him in a corner and tell him he can get out as soon as he stops screaming. If he gets out just keep putting him back in. Eventually, he will calm down and one of these days he will say "Yes, please" when you ask him if he would like.....(what he was screaming for). And before you know it he will be able to communicate to you what he wants without screaming for it. Good luck and Much Patience to you.
2006-12-19 13:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by servant2heaven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 13:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he do this only when he wants something and you say "no", or is this the way he demands everything? As with everything else, babies aren't born with manners, and now's the best time to start teaching him what's the "right" way to ask for what he wants. It may be frustrating at first, but remain consistent and let him know that if he doesn't use "nice" words such as "may I please" or "thank you" he doesn't get what he wants. He will forget, and often. It is your job to remind him.."How do you ask for your milk?" and then demonstrate how he is to ask --"Can I please have some milk." And then..."Now what do you say when mommy/daddy gives you something?"....Be sure to praise him when he asks a polite manner. Often bad behavior is simply a call for attention, so don't reward bad behavior with attention while ignoring his good behavior...and remember consistency is key, do not give in when he dose not use the "magic" words, let him know that there is only one way to get what he wants and that is by being polite. It will take time, but soon you'll have a "mannerable" little man.
2006-12-19 14:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by kefirasmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how kids learn: he screams you give him what he wants. So, he needs to stop - don't give him what he wants. And take it further, ignore him when he screams. And if he pushes further, it's time for a time-out. He is in his learning process, and if you give in to him, he'll have gotten that lesson - but gotten it wrong. You don't want him being a bully to get what he wants. Kids don't come already knowing how to do things. It is our job as parents to guide them in good behavior and attitude and to help them to become a good person. Discipline and being consistent in your discipline is what does that. Don't be tough one day and give in the next. He will learn to behave if you always give him the same message - that screaming and bad behavior don't work.
2006-12-19 13:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Isabel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has learned you will respond to this behavior. Ignore it no matter how painful and trying it may be. Once he stops yelling try to teach him a more socially acceptable way of asking for what he wants. You are a parent. You will have to put up with some discomfort and embarrassment for the sake of your child.
2006-12-19 13:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u answered it, yelling and screaming is the only way they can communicate. if he talks and does that then id worry, right now poor thing can only get ur attention this way.
2006-12-20 01:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by klumzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ignore it. He needs to know that screaming is not the way to get what you want. Ignore him completely when he screams for something. He's screaming not only for what he wants, but for attention as well. Any attention you give to him while he's screaming is giving into him--even if he doesn't get what he's screaming for.
2006-12-19 13:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Teach him words or signs that he can use when he wants something. My 18 month old daughter uses a few signs and it has made things so nice because she tell us what she wants. Signs are easier to teach because you can physically prompt them to use the sign. They learn real quick to use the sign. Do not reinforce the screaming by giving into him. He has obviously learned that it gives what he wants.
2006-12-19 13:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You get him to stop by not giving him the things he wants. Example he screams i want my toy, you won't give it to him. He will get so tired screaming that he'll stop.
2006-12-19 13:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anaaa 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont give him what he is screaming for and put him in a time out and explain why. he will realize that screaming doesnt work...IN A HURRY! good luck
2006-12-19 13:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by giddiupj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋