everyone in my class thinks im bi? how can i prove that im not bi?
2006-12-19 13:17:51 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
actually, the more you bring it up, the more they wonder. There's a reason Shakespeare wrote those immortal words, "methinks the lady does protest to much." In other words, by bringing it up, you make people wonder!
2006-12-19 13:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't prove that you "aren't" something to others. You just have to know what your orientation is & live your life accordingly. After people start noticing you having relationships with only those of one sex & not the other, the rumors will lessen or die out -but it really doesn't matter what they think, as you know who you are.
2006-12-20 00:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them......
In school kids will ALWAYS find something to start a rumor about cause they are bored. Whenever its true or not, they are just trying to pick on you.
The more you get upset, the more your just encouraging them to keep going. Because to them "oooh she/hes getting upset, it must be true!!!"
Just IGNORE them.... show you don't care what they think, you know whats true and whats not and thats all you need to know.
The more you ignore them. They will get tired and find someone else to pick on.
Remember, there is NOTHING WRONG with having friends of either gender and that does not make you bisexual unless your sexually attracted to both genders.
Just ignore them and show they can waste thier time, your not wasting your time by getting upset. They'll soon move on.
2006-12-19 21:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by tashasw79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u r gay and u wanna prove that u r not bi when ever u talk to the oppsite gender look down but if u r straight and u wanna prove that u r not gay then talk like straight ppl
2006-12-19 22:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry darling, there's no way except for telling the truth, which doesn't always work. Don't feel bad, people have been saying that me and my best friends are lesbians for a long time... Just don't let it bother you.
2006-12-19 21:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sierra N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date or associate only with members of the opposite sex.
Stay away from people who would slander you. Explain to them in terms they can understand that their problem is not yours and if they like same sex relationships to find some one who feels as they do but it makes you sick to think of it.
2006-12-19 21:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you can prove something like that. Just tell them the truth when they ask and if they do not accept it, don't let it bother you.
You do not owe anyone an explanation, anyway.
2006-12-19 21:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by saopaco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with many people of the same gender and then say, "Now that didn't do a THING for me!"
2006-12-19 21:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont question it at all when they make comments just let it ride and tell them not to worry about who u Fn i would let them no that its not they life its YOURS how about this just let them be dumb
2006-12-19 22:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by CiCi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not don't worry about it you don't have to prove any thing to anybody except yourself
2006-12-19 21:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by wayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋