I have this friend and we used to be best friends but she has backstabbed me and abuses our friendship all the time....i dont trust her anymore but we still talk. She constantly brags about herself when we do.....should i just end the friendship or keep talking to her as an acquaintance?
2006-12-19 12:58:35 · 17 answers · asked by ChunkyMonkey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
keep her as an aquaintance. someone i like to call a "hi in the hall" friend but that's all. you don't want to end the relationship or anything dramatic b/c that could totally blow up in your face!! but don't be surprised if one day you re-kinder your friendship. we all grow up in different ways and that's just a part of life. just know that you can't really trust her and don't let yourself get played.
2006-12-19 13:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time people start being real with themselves. You know this person has back stabbed you, she abuses you and she is not someone to trust...be real and end the friendship. It's obvious that it is not benefiting you and you should again be real and look out for your best interest. Maybe before you end the relationship you could ask her why she is behaving like she is (in a subtle way, of course), maybe she is having problems of her own and is just acting out because of what her environment is forcing upon her.
2006-12-19 13:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep her as an acquanitance, the trust in the friendship is not valued by her and unfortunatly people like this very rarely change their personality. You may find that eventually you will have less contact with each other over time anyway.
2006-12-19 13:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by polynesiachick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terminate the friendship and distance yourself from her. If your paths cross, you can still be polite to her, but don't feed her any information about yourself.
She may have been your best friend at one time, but at the moment she is a two-faced little bytch and that is not someone you want in your life EVER.
2006-12-19 13:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships like that are too full of drama and too draining on a person. I would end the friendship, calmly, but honestly, and tell her you don't have time to devote to it anymore. Good luck.
2006-12-19 13:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the friendship and DON'T tell her anything personal about yourself, (other than what she already knows). She is not your friend.
2006-12-19 13:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it appears like he likes you yet its slightly awkward.to be easy i think of its time to pass on if issues have not happened by using now then they often wont pass out of the pal zone . in case you do no longer already communicate approximately adult adult males to him , you need to start by using exclaiming you like this guy he would not understand and notice his reaction or call him so which you will hear his preliminary reaction and if he gets greater flirty it potential he such as you . :)all i'm going to declare is in no way EVER decrease your standards for a guy , if he dosnt such as you the way he met then you definately hes no longer properly worth your interest , wish it enables :D
2016-10-18 12:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither, this needs to go rite. talk it through with her. if she understands that she brags and never congragulates, that you can't trust her, and that she abuses ur friendship, if she can understand all that and apologize and mebbe change, keep her. if she says that ur the one doing all the stuff, end it.
but think: am i doing anything to hurt her?
2006-12-19 13:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to what you are saying, I would move on. However, knowing that it is human nature to be biased, I have no authority to tell you what to do. I don't see what is wrong with talking to her as an acquantance and not be best friends
2006-12-19 13:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Viscount Nelson888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you've answered your own question. or at least know the answer.
friendship is a 2 way street, this looks like a one way. make a u-turn and get a real friend.
2006-12-19 13:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by mama dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋