i don't care to change this about him now after all this time......i married him for his kindness........i just called it a sacrafice for our love....problem is lately we are always fighting ....and we never make up....i don't care for make-ups with him because i know his kisses are really bad.......what to do? help
2006-12-19 12:54:17 · 12 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
are you kidding me?? why would you marry someone for their kindness and not love??? does he know this? or maybe he has found out!! anyway why don't you just talk to him about his kisses?? how can someone fix something if they do not know whats wrong??
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2006-12-19 12:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by bradystjames 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, that's strange! How can you have married someone that isn't a good kisser? That's not the way it should be, but regardless... whatever it is about his kisses that you don't like you certainly an change, and I've been told that many times. Teach him how to kiss, you'll both enjoy it after you get over the akwardness of it....Teach him to do what you'd like. Otherwise you're doomed!
2006-12-19 20:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Teach him how to kiss right. After all this time you still cannot communicate with him? No wonder you're always fighting. Try telling him what you like in a kiss and then show him. My BF would try to swallow my entire face when we first kissed, I just said hey whoa guy, try to keep it in the park. I showed him what I liked and he is my favorite person to kiss now , because he has perfected it.
2006-12-19 21:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by lilyvix2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it is time for you to guide him alittle bit in the kissing realm since it sounds like you have more experience some guys it comes natural some they have to be given some tips and guidance. I myself enjoy french kissing but that si just me as long as he is not licking your face there may be help for him yet.
Show him how you like to be kissed and then let him try as the saying goes at forst if you dont succeed try try again. Good Luck
and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-19 20:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is like you said you married him cause you thought he was a good kisser, but married him cause he is kind and caring.my advise is to tell him how you feel and maybe lightbulb will lite up and might open his eyes and see what he has been missing. just try a little harder your relationship is on the line.
2006-12-19 21:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by bobbyapple72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you guys are being playful tell him to let you kiss him and he's just to follow your lead.
Then after you've finished let him know how much you liked it and how it turned you on.
Unless he's really not paying attention he'll begin to do it the way you like.
2006-12-19 20:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's really shallow, that you don't care for make-ups with him because he's not the best kisser. BIG DEAL!!!
Quit thinking about yourself.
2006-12-19 21:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
how can somebody be a bad kisser? It sounds as if you don't like each other.
2006-12-19 20:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flippin teach him how you want him to kiss you already!
2006-12-19 22:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU married him knowing you didn't enjoy his kisses...There isn't much you CAN do.
2006-12-19 23:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋