if someone says they will always be your friend and then something happens like you fall out do you think you should forget about them and get on with your life or try and make it up with them me personally i think you should forget them and get on with your life if your friend cant be bothered to reply to your questions after falling out is it worth worrying about it
2006-12-19 12:49:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-12-19 12:54:14 · update #1
it depends why you fell out to begin with. If the person tried to apologize and you don't accept it then no its not worth trying to fix. But if you care about the person then yes its definitely worth saving, friends are very hard to find, especially ones who try to help you with all they have to give.
2006-12-19 13:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥~ *CHEEKY* ~♥~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is someone who you know you can always make it up to when things go wrong... for instance: my best friend and I have known each other for 7 yrs and we have some rules to go by which work for us. 1) If we have a little spat at each other, one or the other of us HAS to get in contact again same day 2) If we have a BIG spat we usually give each other two weeks to calm things down a bit but one of us has to approach the other 3) NO TEXT MESSAGES WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY WITH EACH OTHER!!! We are the best of friends and always will be. She has been through everything with me and we quite literally cant live without each other, meaning if one moves away the other will go too. You will know if a friendship is worth it. There is love and understanding there and a dependancy of each other that is simply too rare to give up
2006-12-19 21:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by trixie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My closest friend n i have been friends for 15 years. We met at secondary school. We've had our falling outs, sometimes lasting a few months and periods were weve fallen out of contact a bit with being busy in our lives. Thing is though, i know that even if wed been too busy to talk in a while n i needed her, id only have to shout, n she knows the same. A true friend is always there when you really need them and you can trust them with anything knowing they won't judge you only support but will be honest n tell you when youre doing somethihg stupid because they love you. yu can laugh or cry with them equally and they know you better than anyone. our children have grown up close too which is nice.
2006-12-19 21:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by serephina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend will always talk to you even if there has been a falling out. People disagree all the time,a nd they still talk to each other. If you have a falling out then the person will not talk to you again, it is not a true friend.
2006-12-19 22:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by chewp2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all make mistakes and have arguments but a true friend will try to work things out. True friendship is hard to find so don't just ditch people like that. On the other hand if your friend is not mature enough to talk about the issues, maybe you don't need the drama.
2006-12-19 20:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Angela F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a question i can relate with!!!
My best friend commited suicide 4 years ago,September 25th 2002,i fell out with him a couple of years previous, i made the call to meet up again cos he had no idea where i was.
We met up on the 16th of September,we had the best day we had for years,but i knew something was not right,he tried to talk to me but i kept telling him all would be ok,it has haunted me ever since,cos i knew i could of prevented it,trust me make it ok,cos u might never have the chance to be friends again!!!
2006-12-19 21:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A true friend sticks with you no matter what. A falling out can happen between friends, but real friends see past the petty arguments and misunderstandings and hold to what is valued most.
2006-12-19 20:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by MARY L 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i true friend in my eyes is someone who is there for you when you need them most and someone you talk to and get a dvice from - as well as the usual stuff like having a laugh.
if you have fell out and made an effort to make up with your friend maybe there not worth it if there not making an effort on their part - good luck
2006-12-20 03:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always told my friends that no matter what we will be friends. If you and your bf get mad at each other over something that's not worth you loosing your friendship over. Then you an her should forgive each other, an move on with your life . But if she sleep with your boyfriend then she was not your friend in the first place.
2006-12-19 21:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is like a treasure. Very hard to find, but it can be done. A true friend will never lie to you - will be supportive of you- will laugh and cry with you-and you can trust them and depend on their word. If any one refuses to talk to you and wants to be a game player, they will not be a lasting friend. You will have a lot of acquaintances in this life but never a lot of friends. I am 70 years old and have one true friend. We have been friends since 2nd grade. Good luck in finding a true friend
2006-12-19 20:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Janis G 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋