We are not stupid we just wanna be happy. He will marry me and we love each other. If you think that my purpose is just to get a citizenship. that is not the real reason to marry him. Coz for me age is not a problem with me as long as we love each other. Am i bad woman if i'll marry an old man? I wanna help him too, actually he always telling me that he loves me very much, thats why he wants to come here in the Philippines, meet and marry me. He calls and send emails everyday.........so what do you think? does he really love me? if you will ask me i really like him no matter what..... but sometimes i am also scared and fear in my heart what will be my life when i get to US, his family and more questions in my mind but about the man no more questions what i feel for him is true i love him very much. please give me more idea.......
2006-12-19 12:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This appears to be a message written by someone who is about to become an extremely confused and miserable "mail order bride" or someone who agrees to marriage after advertising in a publication and then receiving several letters from men who have never met them, claiming that they love them which of course is totally absurd..The vast majority of men who look for wives using this mail technique have gone through failed marriages,frequently several of them,and they then bring their misconduct, which sometimes includes violence and wife beating, into their new marriage.They decide to use the "mail order bride" technique to find a wife because the women these services attract are usually living in poverty and the men believe that they will accordingly tolerate their misconduct and sometimes out-right abuse.For these reasons coupled with the difficulty that these women have adjusting to a very different culture,the vast majority of these marriages end in divorce and because of new and much stricter immigration rules,the women are denied American citizenship which is their primary reason for wanting to get married, and they are forced to return divorced to their country where their church prevents them from marrying again.
2006-12-20 04:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by DrDeanCrosby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 06:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know until you try it. Maybe it will be a big mistake and maybe it will work out. As for his being an old man, that is okay if it doesn't bother you. Maybe you like old men. And even if you did marry for citizenship, so what? No one cares. The main question is whether he is going to treat you with respect.
2006-12-19 13:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by TruBlevr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have known 2 'mail order brides'as they were called .and both lived a life of abuse,they had never met before coming to this country..Canada..and both were promised many great things..when really they were expected to be house slaves so to speak.I don't know your situation but you better have a plan B in case it doesn't work out.If you are desperate for love ..you may be sorry later..if not I wish you well.......be wise
2006-12-19 13:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by shasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You just feel very scared, which is normal. Moving to a new country can be different and scary, but once it has happened, you will enjoy the new adventure and you will get use to the new changes. Be understanding to his family if their are problems will be good.
Good luck.
2006-12-19 13:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by Low G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying. Love can be found anywhere. Best of Luck to the both of you. It will be a real adventure for you.
2006-12-19 12:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by flip4449 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart take god with u be happy
2006-12-19 12:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by vickey417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋