& she's one of my BFFs what am supposed to do?
2006-12-19 12:22:08 · 16 answers · asked by Sumara 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And if I act mad at her *which I've tried* she'll start talking about me behind my back!
2006-12-19 12:34:46 · update #1
she still thinks she is in 3d grade .. and she might be a bit jelous of the attention your getting from HER friend ...
the next time you see her play teacher and student .. tell her "time out" till she can act like a nice little lady in your presence.
flat out do not put up with it ...be the adult to her child like ways
2006-12-19 12:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she does these things I assume she does them on a fairly consistent basis. If so, then why do you put up with her behavior? Do you put up with it because you don't want to lose her as a friend? It seems to me that you are not pleased with what she does and if so, then you should ask her why she does these things to you. If you don't get a good answer then you think you should continue to put up with her as a friend? If it were me I would not stand for what she does. One thing I would do is to tell her to stop and if she didn't I would tell her she is no longer my friend but instead just a nuisance which I can do without.
2006-12-19 12:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, remember i`m going to be nice you got to stop being her friend because your friendship is not going good no BFF is allowed to boss,hit,push you around,and pretends to be mad all you got to say is sorry i can`t be your friend any more because what she is doing is so wrong to be your best friend.
2006-12-19 12:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it right back to her, she sounds like the type of person who will get annoyed that you are acting that way,so when she confronts you about your aggressive behavior,tell her you'll stop when she stops
2006-12-19 12:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell this bruiser that she needs to not touch you Tell her that if she touches you again without permission you will no longer be her friend. And tell your best friend to keep this friend away from you after that. Nobody should tolerate this behavior, and if your friend doesn't understand that, SHE doesn't deserve you as a friend!
2006-12-19 12:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like your mad at her and to get her to no how it feels..... start to boss her around...... and if she gets mad at you{for real this time} she will be crawling back, she wont have anyone to boss around.......... dont worry a lot of my friends get mad at each other ,they wont boss u around after u make a statment.......
2006-12-19 12:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could treat her the way she's treating you since it's all in fun, anyway. I suppose that's the sort of pal she wants, so play the part and have fun with it.
2006-12-19 12:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by TruBlevr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is on a power trip needs to keep u off balance she is out of control ,
2006-12-19 12:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by moondanceris missing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sally! Tell her to stop !
2006-12-19 12:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop bein her friend..it seems like she is not into a real friendship
2006-12-19 12:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋