i miss my boyfriend so much, but sometimes i wonder if he misses me back. he says he does, and i believe him, but sometimes i call and he doesnt call back or forgets to call back, and sometimes he just doesnt answer (but doesnt call back. we live close to each other, but we have different schedules, and my mom is strict so we see each other once a week if we're lucky. sometimes my mom actually says i can go see him but then i call him and he already has plans with his friends so he doesnt want to see me. he tries rescheduling to another day but i dont want to hang out then cuz it takes so much effort to ask my mom to let me out. we've been together for a little over 2 months and we love being with each other, but sometimes i just wonder. am i expecting too much? or he supposed to pay more attention to the relationship?
2006-12-19 12:20:44 · 6 answers · asked by one&only<3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he isn't putting alot of effort into the relationship. Ask him what he wants to get out of this relationship. If things are going to be this difficult, get out before you guys get hurt. But if you guys enjoy being together, try and find a way to make it work. Don't give up!
2006-12-19 12:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty young so why aren't you spending time not only with your boyfriend but with your girlfriends as well. Some times when you are in a relationship you think you are suppose to be with that person all the time and they are suppose to have all thoughts of you. That"s not always the case. Just enjoy doing various things with different people. If he really like you and you like him you will enjoy the time you finally get to spend together.
2006-12-19 20:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you are "young". high maintenance isn't really what i would call this, and clingy isn't the right word either. you have only been together for two months and to expect anything out of "boys" is asking for trouble. i wouldn't worry about it but if it bothers you then let him know and from the sounds of it the least that could happen is he could hang up on you. maybe you should get a hobby instead....
2006-12-19 20:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by maggie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you make plans with your mom. That way she can let you know when it is okay with her to go out and he will know ahead of time and not make plans. Why don't you try to talk to your mom and see why she is so hard on you.
2006-12-19 20:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question only you can answer... you must suspect it though or you wouldn't ask.... it's not high maintenance...it's called being so emtionally needy that you scare the guy.
2006-12-19 20:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
true. spend more time with ur galfrenz
2006-12-19 20:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋