How do I get pregnant without my husband knowing?

Question

My husband doesn't want children......I do. How do I get pregnant and not make it seem obvious?

should i tell him not to use a condom cause its weird? what do i do! I HAVE to have kids with him. I LOVE him. But I NEED kids too.

Answer 1

I can't quite understand why you would want to bring a child into the world that isn't wanted by the other parent? Why? Do you think he'll warm up to it? Or that it may save your marriage. Have you ever thought that maybe you two weren't meant for each other?

Answer 2

Talk to him and tell him how badly you want children. He should understand if he loves you and cares for you. Just tell him he will not regret it. But you must know that if you do end up having children then you can't make him do everything and you must always tell him thank you and that you love him. Buy him gifts etc... he will then feel good inside for doing something great.

If he still decides no then ask him why he doesnt want children. There must be a reason. Perhaps you could work something out with him. But if he still says no then you can either leave him (even though you dont want to) and then like 2 weeks later see if he has changed his mind and get back together.

That may not work so tell him to think about it because you really think it would make your family a true family.

well thats all I could think of so hope it helps you.

Answer 3

Getting pregnant behind your husbands back after he let you know how he felt about having kids is the worst thing to do. It sounds to me like you should not be having kids because you are obviously not ready. You need to learn to respect others and talk about issues before making a commitment to a child. Don't have a child to have a child, have one because you are ready and want to expand your family. You can't get rid of them when they disagree with something.

Answer 4

So when to have intercourse, whilst you're ovulating. Having an orgasm for the period of intercourse raises blood flow to the cervix and lowers the acidity throughout the vagina elevating your probabilities of getting pregnant. Wait twenty minutes after intercourse earlier than getting up and relocating around, try conserving your labia together as long as feasible, it'll additionally aid by striking a pillow underneath your pelvis to aid tilt your physique so the sperm can travel upwards easier, out of the billions of sperm some is consistently going to leak out.

Answer 5

Wait until hes ready for kids. This whole sneaking behind your husbands back to get pregnant idea is a HUGE mistake.

Answer 6

Leave him, divorce, find a man who wants a family, get married, and have a happy life. Or is that too obvious??

Answer 7

do not force kids on that man if he is not ready. forcing someone to be a dad when they are not ready often times makes for the kinds that works long hours to keep from being at home, and not interacting with the kid(s) and/or you when he comes home. for the sake of your marriage, don't do it.

Answer 8

You don't unless you want to break up the marriage. Otherwise, the easy answer would be to stop doing what ever birth control method you are using.

Answer 9

If you want children and he doesn't, then divorce him. Don't cheat on him. You don't want to have children in his life at all if he isn't going to give you support and be involved. You should want to be with someone who wants children too. So, you all can be one big happy family! :)

Answer 10

There is no ethical answer to your request short of telling him the way it is... can't guarantee his response though.

If you don't care about the ethics... poke holes .... or just as he is about ready to C** reach down and take it off him...he's not likely to stop being that close.